Ok guys i recently started looking into all this thanks to "The Pick Up Artist" and "The Keys to the VIP" shows. This led me to youtube videos and later "The Game-by Style" . Looking back to my successes in dating and sex life the behavior just before them completely matched to those they suggest to do.

Background

Im 23 yrs old, student, live with parents and two younger brothers, I have a good social life most of the time when i go out i dont pay for shit and hav an amazing time.

I was born in a medium sized overpopulated city in Mexico. Lived there for 15 yrs then moved to the USA, i live in a border city to mexico. Im attending college here. im on my senior year hopefully by next fall i shall graduate as an engineer.

I spent most of my college life with a GF for two years, we broke up a year ago, I used to hav ONEITIS with her real bad, now I still think shes an amazing girl in every aspect i can think of. I started talkin to her again, but she was the one that for the past months tried to keep in touch, at first i was intimidated and just avoided her cause i didnt want to feel all those emotions for her again, she has a BF which i hate the guy just because lol, I will keep in touch with her cause shes the only one which i can talk to 100% honest but not with the intention to get back together just to be platonic friends, but if the opportunity arises for making out or hooking up i will definitely take guys =P. Just a few months I started fooling around with this single mom and her daughters stole my heart specially the big one, shes 4 years old, never felt such kind of love so unconditional so pure, Im definitely looking forward to be a father in the future(hopefully in like 5 to 7 yrs from now). We also broke up a month ago, Im not saying this to try to sound cool or anything but I didnt feel sad about it, just a lil but cause the lil girls.

After breaking up with my ONEITIs during January I started hanging out with all my friends which I've never hung out before cause i would literally spent most of my time with her (never went to clubs only like 2 times in those 2 yrs), also i didnt drink alcohol at all until the beginning of this year. I only drink socially and most of the time cautiosly, but Ive gotten really drunk 2 times already -.-. Well during spring I went to South Padre Island which is just 30 minutes from my house. I had the greatest time of my life during that week. Meet awesome people from different places. During that week it was the birthday of one of my best friends, so we were at his GF's house and i was having such a BLAST. Just as the books says when you are the one emitting the good vibes it attracts the women, just before i knew i had 5 or 4 women grinding on me as i was dancing, I was in top of the world although they were btwn 6 to 8 points. Later i was in the roommate's bedroom cause i was lying on the bed with one of the girls i was dancing with cause my rib was hurting cause i injured it a couple of week before in MMA (mixed martial arts) club, she was a 10 in body but her face was a 6 or 7 =/. Just when i felt we were about to make out two other girls come into the bed, and they literally jumped on top of me. My rib hurt like hell, but i held it in cause i saw the opportunity that was presenting before me. But then the girl i was with first left and i was with the other two chicks, still looked good to me, they were a 7 and a 8. So they started to get hot and tried to kiss me, but i avoided the kiss cause the ONEITIs sunk in, i started remember my ex, so i wasnt in that mood really. But dont wrry i didnt miss that opportunity for my first threesome. They both got naked and we did it, but thanks to that stupid ONEITIs i didnt fully enjoyed it.

Goals for the Game

Hopefully i was able to describe what im about to point out. Those kind of successes were because the opportunity presented and i took it, but i want to be able to do it consciously, i want to be able to create that opportunity to take it.

I want to expand my social circle, meet incredible interesting people, become a great leader the alpha male, just like Tom Cruise lol.

Ultimately i want to become succesful in all the aspects of my life i want to.

Ive read a few journals other fellow ppl have posted and it seemed it helped them improve a lot, so im taking that initiative as well.

Goals set for the near future

Get into top A physical shape
Start to open random people and maybe befriend them if possible
Look for a job
Start becoming Alpha Male and the life of the party

Dec 10

Went to the mall, with a friend who also wants to start into the game, and attempted to open any sets. Only ended up attempting one cute shop clerk in Aeropostale, I tried this as an opener "Hey quick question which one does it look better, the purple shirt or the pink one" and i would pick the other than the one shed picked. Super major fail, we got interrupted by another female coworker so i felt awkward, she chose the purple one n thought i she had chosen the pink so i said "Ok ima take this one instead" and picked up the purple, which she said yeah that one..............

So i just froze and walked away cause i couldnt think of wat to do next.

Later went with my friend to buy a new cologne for him, and there i saw i a girl who i previously opened but through facebook by a random adding her and telling her she reminded of a friend that i invented which supposely had the same "angel smile". At first i didnt recognize her, until we walked out, but i used as an excuse that we were already walking out.

Later at night i went to my younger brother 21st birthday party, there i saw these two cute girls. But froze when i had the chance and just kept on playing beerpong =S. Even i had one cool opener thought out, cause it was raining and the floor was wet one of them slipped and fell, she didnt get hurt, so i was planning to go to the and say something like this "Hey did you see the clumsy chick that fell down?" and just before she responded in any way interrupt her by saying "Better watch your step" and then start a conversation and then later after hopefully becoming comfortable with each other bring up that she was the one that fell and laugh about it.

Overall missed chances that were giving to me, and failed to create chances for me to take. My body language needs a lot of improvement, need more rocking and speak over the shoulder and dont peck

Just tasted the bitter taste of regret man, i need to destroy AA

Each new report Im going to try to make it cleaner and more organized.

Dec 12

I went to the small in my small city.

My goals & attempts:
Since i didnt go alone and was in a hurry, I didnt feel like approaching cause I was helping my mom on a chore. Instead of focusing on the approach I put my attention to my body language, my stance, and the way I look at people.

I felt more confident thanks to my stance, which transferred to my mood. I was feeling amazing, I talked to two cute mall employers but didnt try game on them, felt weird with my mom around, but I had a confident tone of voice and posture. Noticed that I was being noticed, another employer was eyeing me, which helped raise my good mood, but didnt approach.

Field Notes:
-2:30 pm great time to go to mall, not overcrowded and lots of HBs
-Confident stance makes you a more confident person
-Next time go to the mall alone and start flirting with the employee who was checking me out.

SOunds like your doing good. Your in your head to much. You get results. You are still going to feel the pain from from your girl for a while but. The good part is it diminishes over time. Best thing you can do is what you are doing go out and get twhat you thought you would never have before. Destroy those barriers. Achieve your goals and you will be doing better and better.

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Thank you Maven i appreciate your comment.

Yeah Im trying any possible way to pump up my game, when i dont go out I "fish" on facebook, term i use with a friend. Right now on facebook I've meet and started chatting with cute randomw girls, but so far I've only hoooked one. Also Im trying to get back two chicks that had a crush on me on high school, with one I've never got to do anything with her and next week is coming over to my house just to "chill". The second one we had like a summer fling, but only got up to make out sessions, and I really want to have those again, but she resisting, Im trying to let her kno im interest in her but without chasing. Ill post one conversation with her in the future for feedback.

I dont put the online game, cause is not a field report, but its good to boost my conversation skills.

Tomorrow gonna go to the mall and practice better stance, If I feel good Ill try to pick up not just approach.