Let me first say thank you for your time and I am eager to see what you guys think.

This girl has the same class with me once a week and for 6 weeks I never spoke to her at all! I always noticed her looking at me but didn't know what to think. I beat her in an exam (me and her both got highest marks and I beat her by a point) I then, being a bit crazy said "Haha I beat you now and I will beat you again!!!". She laughed and said "Damn" jokingly.

The next I saw her walking to class and I made it look like I was texting on my phone, she opened the door, turned around to me, arched her neck and said "Hey", I said hey back and made a comment about her being the teacher's pet. Near to the end of the class I put my phone on her desk, she looked at me, I did a motion with my head and she put her number in my phone.

We texted for a week, it was playful, teasing etc. Got a lot of from her. Then when the class came around again, I asked if she wanted to have chinese food, but some guy tagged along. I didn't mind at first and I was taking the piss outta him any way I could and she laughed every time. I suggested coffee first, I got her to hold my hand, teased her and made some funny remarks about women etc. She was asking my opinion alot on the subject we learn together and if I can explain certain theories to the other guy, which I did.

We went to the restaurant, all three of us, the dude left early, and I was maintaining eye contact, played the 5 lies game and got a kiss on the cheek from her. She mentioned how romantic the scenery was. I noticed when I was looking into her eyes her pupils dilated massively. When we were ready to leave she commented on how time had flown by without her realising and started to giggle, I askd her why and she said "I was looking at your face when you were putting your gloves on and you were concentrating so much".

Anyway, when I got home she texted me referring to a conversation we had earlier and how she "just had to share it with me" when she realised something.

Now, two days later I see her around college and shes smoking, looking VERY stresses out. She told me she had a lot on her mind. Before I saw her though, she didnt reply to one of my texts. Shes gone abroad now to see family and I wont see her for a month... What should I do? Can I reignite the fire again after so long?!?!?

Thanks guys!

Hmmmz this is pretty bad.
Seems like when she doesn't respond your texts you'll have to let her go for until she starts texting you. You had your chance when she had those massive pupils. Now that been said, it's not certain things would have been well if you did kiss her that night. She isn't mentally stable so odd would have been great she'd still have acted weird in the following days.

Relax.

Dont txt her nothing, leave it be.

When you see, her talk her normally. Again try and be seductive.

But yes, you should have take the hint " So romantic", But nevermind what done is done.

Ofcourse you can reignite... girls live more on fantasy that in reality. So lets hope she fantazie with you on that period.

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

You definitely gave me hope dude! I think I want to make sure she knows I have other options by talking to other girls outside the class before I go in... What do you think of this? How much should I ignore her if I see her around in a months time?

You shouldnt ignore her. Just act like yourself because it was going for you until you screwed things.


Its allways good have other girls, just be friendly and nice to others. she will notice

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Oh! You've gotta be kidding me!

That's a bit strange that she brought some dude along to your date, what is the relationship between them, is he perhaps your competition?

Sometimes girls like to put two interested guys together to see how they compete for her, it's a bit sick I know but there are girls who get a real kick out of the drama and choose the guy based on the outcome of this set up.

I am not sure if this applies to you but here is a link to an article about 'getting rid of the other guy' http://wayoftheplayer.com/the-best-of-w ... other-guy/

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