I've opened several girls on POF with the "are you one the those girls who takes forever...." and the "Hey you should remove that picture..." and sometimes a combination of the two.
I'm having a hard time transitioning... how can I dhv and make her qualify better?
heres a few (read bottom to top)
I like that, you do have a sense of humor

I can tell youre a woman that knows how to have fun and goes after what
she wants, correct? Tell me something interesting about yourself
Name
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From: hb
Sent Date:12/13/2011 12:27:02 PM Subject: RE: RE:RE: RE: Hey
I thought so lol
Sent Date:12/13/2011 12:18:59 PM Subject: RE:RE: RE: Hey
Lol I was just kidding, I hope you can take a joke. I thought you were
worth getting to know so I had to say hi.
I'm Andrew
Sent Date:12/13/2011 11:45:59 AM Subject: RE: RE: Hey
What pic and why??
Sent Date:12/13/2011 11:43:25 AM Subject: Hey
******another one
Confidence I like it
Ok, Say we were goin to get sushi, I'm super hungry and haven't eaten a thing all day. You just got home from the
gym and need to get ready, how long till we're out the door?
A. 60 mins and you look amazing I can't keep my eyes and hands off you.
B. 15 mins and you look pretty cute.
C. 2 hours and I die from starvation
From: her
Sent Date:12/10/2011 7:19:31 PM Subject: RE: RE:RE: Hey you
Just looks that way
From: me
Sent Date:12/10/2011 6:14:26 PM Subject: RE:RE: Hey you
Lol. I was hoping you could take a joke

Are you one of those girls that takes forever to get ready, or does it just
look that way?
me
From:her
Sent Date:12/10/2011 4:23:27 PM Subject: RE: Hey you
Which picture?
From:me
Sent Date:12/10/2011 2:25:24 PM Subject: Hey you
Hey I would remove that picture from your profile..