Trying to get my Ex back,what should I do about this?



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alex6792
PostPosted: Wed Dec 14, 2011 12:10 am 
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Well long story short i kinda cheated on her with lets say girl A. There was no kissing,my penis didnt go anywhere or any type of sex but her boobs were out......and yea. Please dont judge i made a mistake i know it and regret it. she broke up with me last friday after girl A went and told her what happened -_-. When girl A called (before she told my X),she told me i shouldnt tell her cuz i was young, make mistakes,blah blah and now she crossed me. Well,yea,thats what happened,now i DO want my X back,i love her,and im not suffering oneitis,lol. Thing is i know i cant be needy,have to do my own thing,etc. i KNOW my ex loves me as well an today she posts this on FB:
"Have the feeling u dnt care
Now that theres nothing in your hair
Stress free from me...
I Bet your happy
:/"
We have been doing GREAT and what happened with the other girls was a month ago,my ex found out a week ago and we broke up friday.
i have no idea what to do!!!!!!!!!!!
(btw-i know this might belong in the "relationships" section but i havent gotten 20 posts yet)
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Ehhh, what do you expect?

She's going to go through a number of stages that will take time to forgive you, depending on how bad she thinks it is. She can forgive you, but time is essential, this isn't really related to pickup anymore..

I've had situations like this happen to me, but I've never actually been in a relationship. You can't let her think that you need her, or she'll walk all over you(mistake i made).
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Move on in life.

You fucked up. Don't tell people not to judge, it just means you still dont' want to admit you just made a mistake. Do it, let her move on, and do that, yourself.
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Well long story short i kinda cheated on her with lets say girl A. There was no kissing,my penis didnt go anywhere or any type of sex but her boobs were out......and yea. Please dont judge i made a mistake i know it and regret it. she broke up with me last friday after girl A went and told her what happened -_-. When girl A called (before she told my X),she told me i shouldn't tell her cuz i was young, make mistakes,blah blah and now she crossed me. Well,yea,thats what happened,now i DO want my X back,i love her,and im not suffering oneitis,lol. Thing is i know i cant be needy,have to do my own thing,etc. i KNOW my ex loves me as well an today she posts this on FB:
"Have the feeling u dnt care
Now that theres nothing in your hair
Stress free from me...
I Bet your happy
:/"
We have been doing GREAT and what happened with the other girls was a month ago,my ex found out a week ago and we broke up Friday.
i have no idea what to do!!!!!!!!!!!
(btw-i know this might belong in the "relationships" section but i haven't gotten 20 posts yet)
She is hurt. Don't try to push anything now. Just tell her that you love her and that you made a mistake (sincerely). But that you also respect her decision of breaking things off. Just give her the time and space. And be normal around her without trying to pursue her. Let her know once that you still like her and then leave it there.
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