In this movie, the guy kisses the girl for the first time after going out with her, but it's unique.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lKYHltM9g9U

In this movie, it's a bit exaggerated but the point is the same.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1gDTFyga ... re=related

In essence, stop being such a pussy and playing games. This is the way to go.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aZ_V3DfGgYI

There's no such thing as putting a girl on a pedestal, negging is bull, peacocking is bull. Escalation is the best and most attractive way to show confidence. I've been taking this attitude on and it works wonders. Only disadvantage is that you need serious balls. Don't matter how well you can perform your freeze outs and stuff. If you can do things like that, it will separate you from all other guys.

Sorry but this is just bad advice. Because:
1) This advice would be useful to guys who are already confident, that is either a Natural or a PUA. But such guys don't need this advice at all.

2) If a guy is a complete AFC who doesn't know how to escalate, then by trying to follow your advice he will come off as a total creep, which will further dissolve his confidence in himself.

Don't get me wrong, I think you are in fact correct.Yesterday I approached a girl who mere 10 minutes after we met told me that she will give me the best blow job of my life.
I wasn't peacocking, I didn't use any canned routine, I didn't even NEGed her once (or even teased which I do pretty often usually). All I did was to talk some random nonsense and rapidly escalated physically in a smooth non-needy way.

But I can do this only because my game and inner confidence got so good thanks to methods like MM..

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The AFC needs to understand that he won't come off as a total creep, but as a real man. Being an AFC is barely anything, it's very easy to fix. Simple way to go at it is to don't give a shit. See, when an AFC gets rejected, he gives a huge shit. But what happens if he just smirks it off and truly still likes the girl regardless of what she said?

Your epiphany isn't really one. And the advice you're giving shows that you don't understand PUA or the deep rooted psychological background that causes a guy to be an AFC. Be careful what you say. Somebody might believe it without knowing what's going on behind the scenes.

I've been doing PU ever since I learned about nice guys vs. jerks. I've seen it all and read it all. NLP. cocky & funny, you name it. The real way of being good with women is what most guys on these boards don't want to do. Why? Because it's extremely controversial. You're right though, it's best not to give the advice. I have to have some really loyal people willing to learn for it to sink in.

You're approaching this as if one technique will work on all women. I've experienced some who respond to AFC. Especially the ones who've been fucked over by "natural" jerks. Some HATE cocky/funny because they can't stand cocky guys. One just told me, she loves assertive, but not controlling. Some women need to feel like the guy is a loser because they have deep rooted self-worth issues.

I'm not saying your advice isn't viable, just that it requires a TON of experience and self-awareness to truly say that one option is the universal solution. And I'd bet that if enough guys employed it, evolution would exact another unique approach that women would turn to instead.

We're playing with evolutionary, reproductive, socio-psychological fire power here. Not a cookie recipe.

There is no one universal technique that works on every single woman. Even if you've read all about NLP and cocky funny, that doesn't mean that you've understood all there is to know about it. I remember in one of your other posts, you had completely misunderstood 60 years of challenge. But that's beside the point. If your methods work for you, then that's great. But the advice you seem to be giving to AFC's isn't really advice at all to them. That's why they need to learn all about these methods. Because they aren't naturals. But you are right about the fact that you need balls and escalation to get anywhere.

True, but there is a universal mindset.

Movies != real life.

p.s., Rhett Butler was the best PUA of all time. Of all Time!

Chris really is right guys.

I've memorized all Rhett's lines from Gone With The Wind, and will randomly throw them out in conversation. It works every time.

I know this is an old post, I've just noticed it's identical to 60yoc style, I completely agree with you chris, with every point. Loved the videos too.

Chris preaches 60 yoc doesn't he?

Lol the biggest type limiting believe among most aspiring puas is that they are "afc."

What you think matters is what matters. What you ignore does not exist. Whatever a girl says is bs. Escalation IS the foundation of emotional attachment. Emotional attachment IS what makes a girl take risk/things that lead her to further escalation. Having game is knowing the most efficient way to escalate/ not giving a shit about that stuff that dont matter and knowing and having the experience to stay focused on what is essential while staying calm cool and fun.

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I'll agree that having balls to escalate is like the most important thing there is in pua.