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tedwood
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Okay so a few weeks back my friend was teasing a girl I was dating and she started teasing him back. This includes hitting each other and making jokes. She was laughing and being pretty responsive. Some people may find this socially acceptable and others not. I wouldn't normally mind but I wasn't getting much attention from either of them at the time while they were teasing.

So should I allow this in the future and is this socially acceptable behavior?

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No-one have any input on this, no-one get annoyed if this was happening?

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Assuming he is your good friend, and will respect you and will not try to hook up with her. YES! If she is having fun with it, let her. It's a DHV for you, she knows you roll with some cool ass guys. Also, you don't wanna show jealousy towards it, let them have fun. I have hooked with girls just by bringing them around my friends and showing them how fun we are. And vice versa. Also, I should add this type of stuff just shows the girl you and your friends solid, and trust each other.

If she is getting pissed, then no.
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Sure, i'd be annoyed, but I wouldn't try and control the situation. That will not work, you can't control the fact that they're flirting..

Are you being physical with her and letting her know that you're interested?
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Okay so a few weeks back my friend was teasing a girl I was dating and she started teasing him back. This includes hitting each other and making jokes. She was laughing and being pretty responsive. Some people may find this socially acceptable and others not. I wouldn't normally mind but I wasn't getting much attention from either of them at the time while they were teasing.

So should I allow this in the future and is this socially acceptable behavior?
How do you know she likes him. She could only be responsive because you are friends with the dude
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i was with a girl that used to do that pretty excessively.

heavily flirting with anyone with a cock.

was. with her.

lol

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okay well i can see where you're all coming from. It's just it only annoyed me after because I found out she had a boyfriend and she cheated on him with me so that made me paranoid she had other intentions with my mate. Even though she technically wasn't mine it still would've got to me.

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Okay so a few weeks back my friend was teasing a girl I was dating and she started teasing him back. This includes hitting each other and making jokes. She was laughing and being pretty responsive. Some people may find this socially acceptable and others not. I wouldn't normally mind but I wasn't getting much attention from either of them at the time while they were teasing.

So should I allow this in the future and is this socially acceptable behavior?
If its affecting you then Stop it by taking charge of the conversation. Your friends should respect your friendship by not flirting with the girls you date.

No need to talk to the girl about it. Just take charge of the conversation if this happens the next time.
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This has happened me as well. The easiest way is to talk to your friends and set the lines straight - true friends will never steal a girl from you.

With that being said, don't take it so seriously. A best-case scenario would be a larger group with other girls. If she's playing around with one of your friends, you can in turn have fun with one of the other girls!
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