Hey guys,

In a few days I'll be 18 and however hard it is to admit it, I have no game. I was in one LTR with a girl (6 months) this past summer and in that whole time, I freaked out and we did literally nothing, I mean nothing. We made out, about four times. That's it.

I pussied out because I didn't know what to say, what to do, or how to do it and I was so intimidated. I just found this site and if I had found it earlier, we'd probably still be together. Sucks too, she was an Asian HB9, super intelligent, and good hearted.

I'm very confident, dress well, and look pretty decent. Don't really know what I'm doing wrong but maybe this site can help me figure it out.

So, hey guys! My name's Luke. I live in NY. I'm almost 18.

Hey Luke, i'm 18 myself, and some people on this forum think we are too young for PUA. I hope that at least you can prove them they are wrong, I am willing to prove that they are wrong.

Hey Wallie- I mean, I'm not here because I want to get laid and I think that's why they think we're too young.

I'm here because I seriously have no idea what to do and have difficulty talking to girls without them turning into friends. It's like automatic for me to make girls into friends because I don't know how or when to make a step.

Not trying to get laid, trying to get over this inability to get a girl- maybe that'll make a point for us younger guys

I am 22, I never think age is factor to show your activity here. You can cross others by your activity and hard work.

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I am 18 as well and fully understand the reasons for why some people think were to young to practice pickup. In fact its not pickup in our case, its more of learning how to direct social interaction. Pickup has to many connotations with it, and for that reason I do not see myself as someone trying to learn it. I myself have the problem of escalating sexually, which is heavily because I suppress my emotions. Do not make the mistake though of coming to this site searching for your identity of who you are, this is only one aspect of our lives no matter how glorified it is. At the age of 18 I find myself going through this state of self identity and realize that being better at pickup will not define who I am, it will only help shape me. To me this site is more of a self help site then a guide to how seduce women, I find myself working more on inner game then outer game. I believe it is the inner game which keeps me from escalating as I have no experience in it at all. My advice to anyone my age is to do meditation as it will help you see who you are and what you are working towards, at this critical stage in your life.

Hi Luke, you mention that you can't help but get girls into a friend zone. This is not a bad thing, in fact its a great thing. You need to see the bigger picture my friend.

Having female friends and as many as possible is letting you tap into the very source you are trying to figure out. Thus increasing your odds and personal data base. The great thing about it is, you can attempt a seduction anytime and it's a lot easier when you know much more about them.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

well.. I am 16 and I'll show the guys who think young people can't game my GAME. I hope you will do the same

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You are wise beyond your years my friend. You'll do just fine in all that you do. Do not search for your identity, let it find you.

Fortune Favors the bold.

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Seduce their mind and the rest will follow.

Thanks for the warm welcome and advice guys

and... I totally agree with you.

Problem is that I know who I am and I'm confident in it but, for whatever reason, I just can't push outside the friend zone with girls. Ever. I'm hoping the advice here will help me slowly move outside my usual comfort zone and learn to become a bit more flirty and talk to girls in a way that they'll be receptive and interested.

If you know who you are, confidence will get you far. Nothing is more attractive then confidence, as for pushing yourself this site can challenge you but you have to be willing to fail. There is a separation between who you feel you are and what the girls see you as and that is where most people with friend zone problems come from. If you can act like yourself around a girl, and she doesn't like you, are you still who you want to be? This site will not help any of us get through the struggle easier, only help us see what were dealing with. I meet plenty of people that read the game and say oh this book is great and go out seeking to master that one field, but what they are missing is that why they want to master it. Yes you want to be better with women, but is there a bigger meaning. I suggest you read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle, it will help you with your friend zone problems, and all other problems in your life. I felt comfortable with who I was until I realized what full potential I was missing, at 18 I am glad to have figured this out.

Sweet post man, yet I also believe the game will em-bolded us to be who we truly are, and in so will aid us to be as free as a bird, as if nothing is holding us back, while in turn; giving us a aura of zeal!

We have the capacity to grasp that which appears un-achievable and therefore the world is our oyster for the seizing!