So I was talking to this chick and she told me she can never date a black guy or a asian guy.

Being asian, I made fun of her for being racist but then she told me her grandpa fought in vietnam and to him all asians were the same. -___-

I felt like it would be disrespectful to force her to throw her loyalties towards me instead of her gramps so I've been just slowly push pulling ever since. But in all honesty, what should I do in this situation?

You should.

Not even be talking to that kind of girl.



Seriously, why would you even consider being with a girl that lets her grandfathers prejudices become hers? She threw you a racist comment and you chose to tease her about it? To make fun of it? I would have just turned around and walked away and never look back.

If she was being serious. It is likely that she said that just to tell you that there is no chance of you two ever getting anything going. And by doing it in such a retarded way, she wanted to make sure that all of your hopes were crushed with a single blow so that she wouldnt ever have to put up with your attempts again because she thinks that you were being annoying.

See what Im doing here? Girls dont always tell us what their words tell us. You gotta see beyond that, see WHY she says something instead of listening to WHAT she says.

If the first case is true and she is just a little racist or she is too weak to make her own choices, do like a tree and leave.

If the second case is true and she told you to get rid of you, you were doing something wrong.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Go to their place wear camouflage everything and keep staring at her grampa. That will freak him the fvck out.

On a serious note, this a completely superficial barrier just like "i will never do anything slutty." All that principle type of shyt go out the window at some point when you turn her on enough. Besides, her grampa is irrelevant ive had sex with girls who dont even consider us dating in the first place since they despise players and ive told them ive been wity a lot of women, so they just treat me as a "friend they have fun with." Its all about how you frame it in her mind, and make sure she feels confident about the privacy that anything kinky tye two of you do stays between you two.

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Yeah, it really only boils down to two scenarios like Ezo said, if she's not joking. You don't want to associate with that type, put your energy into something worth while

Here is the solution!
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Seriously, she's a bitch, nobody should say stuff like this. Learned racism from grandpa? What? After saying such stuff, you shouldn't associate with her even if she would date you.
Also, wise words from Ezo: Actually listening WHY a girl says something is very important.

PS: Sorry about the crude joke

Remember attraction isn't a choice, we can't force people's references. The big different between a PUA and an AFC is that the PUA knows which set he should not be wasting time in.

Like others said, if she doesn't like asians or at least open-mind enough to the idea, I would just move on. It's not your fault, it's not her fault. Just blame the human leukocyte antigen !