OK so one thing I don't have is a big juicy circle of sexy friends. And lets presume for the purposes of this thread I don't want one either.

How do offset this if I'm looking for a relationship?

ps this was kind of covered in another thread but it got me thinking so thought i'd give it it's own thread[/i]

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I don't entirely see why this would be a problematic obstacle to getting into an LTR.

While social proof does help quite a bit (if done right even massively), lack thereof should be fairly easily compensated if you convey the positives, conveyed by social proof, throughout the interaction yourself.


Lets try something here:

Situation 1: High social proof.
You walk into your favourite bar with a girl on your arm- you immediately get some high-fives and 'what's ups' from some other high value people and the bartender slides you your drink as you approach the bar and start to talk to 2 other attractive female friends of yours. Your target observes this all.

If you dissect this into merely what you have conveyed to your target in terms of qualities- what would these qualities be?


situation 2: No social proof.
You arrive in a foreign city, walk into a random bar-

What could you now do to show these qualities listed before?

You dont need social proof, it is just one of those things that can make gaming easier. Just like you dont need to look good but it helps.

If the rest is good enough it compensates for your shortcomings.

See it like this. Write down the 10 most important qualities you need for seduction. Assign each and everyone of those a rating between 1-10.

You dont need to have 100 out of 100. You may just need 50 or lower. It is just that you cannot suck at all of it but what you lack in some areas you make up for in others until you can improve them.

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What does social proof has to do with ltr? Keep doing what you are doing, your game is right from the other threat, if one of those girls catches your interest, then re-frame the whole thing, but little by little to a ltr, just be careful you do not do it obvious it has to be subtle.

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OK cool good advice.

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