Hello My PUA Brothers in Crime,

A quick question. I've heard from many Asian guys that Asian girls (God bless 'em) are more stand-offish and harder to meet and socialize with than white girls (unless you're a tall blonde white guy, then it's easy). In Juggler's great book, he does mention that he hasn't gotten Asian women figured out yet.

2 questions. Do you guys agree that Asian girls are in general harder to sarge and if so, how should they be sarged differently.

BTW, you won't hurt my feelings... I'm Asian too. No worries, it's all about spreading the love in this world.


Respectfully,

M

A woman is a woman. It doesn't matter what race she is... I dated one for 8 months and I'm not Asian nor white tall dude, like you said, (god blessed them). To me they are the best Lovers. I love the fact that they are petite passionate and faithful, but they xpect marriage right away and on my experience she was extremely Jealous but perhaps that is applied to all girls in general.

_________________
The great mystery of all times finally has been decoded.

You know I may be a white guy but still, I've never had a problem socializing with Asian girls at all. Granted I havn't had any sexual encounters with any Asian chicks...yet! But in my experience they're all really nice and have quite bubbly personalities if you can bring it out of them

Honestly I think asian guys and asian girls are weird in a way... I'll explain. I live in Japan and everytime I go out to the club/bars I never see Japanese guys going for Japanese girls. I think the guys are to scared to talk to them, but then again I go to Roppongi which is the club district and its pretty well known for JN (Japanese nationals) and gaijin (foreigner) hook ups. When I was in the states though I noticed that asian guys and girls had there own little groups that they hung out with. I never dated an asian girl until I moved to Japan. If I were you I would get into those little groups and try to work off of them. I miss americanized asian girls, the girls in Japan dont shave

....no shaving... thats horrible... we talking armpits and legs too... or just the vaginal regions. I still hate hair

Just the vaginal area, I think its because they wear skirts in the winter time and they are trying to keep warm. I also heard it's because of there religion as well. But still getting hair in your teeth isn't fun. But the americanized ones shave... at least the ones I have dated.

hahahaha omg... i have never heard that before about hary pussy so they
can be staying warm. i am mexican, and for the past 2 years i have only dated asian women. amen to that. like u guys say (god bless them) dated 5, loved 3. the ARE the best lovers in my book. but i agree with u M. it takes harder work to sarge them. i really dont know how to sarge them, haha for all i knew (before i realized about this matrix) i just got lucky with each of them and said the right things. but now i am learning the patterns and the way to sarge them so ill try to get back to u on that soon. ill enjoy doing so..

_________________
if you think you should, then do it!

In Japan I've noticed that alot of them are insecure which I believe are the easiest chicks to pick up. Pretty much all of the asians I have dated are insecure. anyone else notice this? Well with the asians in America at least. Also if any of you are in college or know girls that come to America straight from Japan I highly advise you to get on them. All you really have to do is say you can show them around or you can help them with their english, thats the one of the things I use to get in there pants. Alot of them all look innocent and sexually naive but they start getting busy early, like 14 and above, don't let them play that innocent shit on you.

VERY DIFFERENT.

In Groups: Asian girls are extremely hard to approach in groups, especially in bars and nightclubs. First of all, most of the groups of asian girls in nightclubs and bars that you see, usually have come with a group of asian guys (boyfriends). These groups of asian guys are usually not a fun obstacle to deal with in the club, you can get your ass jumped real fast, without a verbal confrontation or even a warning. (happened to me twice) However, if you wish to procede, I would go with trying to get a dance from one in the group, this will usually mean that she is single. So you won't have to deal with anyone wanting to crush your skull with their timberlands. Outside of clubs and bars, they are easier to approach, where as in the club you will find asian women who are cocky and bitchy, any where else you will usually find them reserved and shy. Here, you would just want to intrigue them with your intelligence and wit. (Mindpower has always been something that eastern cultures have always cherished whether it is from the perspective of a man or woman).

Solo: Not nearly as hard as groups. Again, the key that I found is showing wit and intelligence to crack them out of their shy shells.

--Methuselah

Hey Bro's,

Thanks for the tips. I agree with you guys, especially the last few replies. I think there is a cultural difference which makes sarging a bit different with Asian women. Usually, I've noticed, the bitch shield is stronger (especially if you're a stranger) at first, but once you break through, they're very kind, sweet, and devoted.

White girls I've noticed have less stranger anxiety and are usually friendlier to me from the beginning.

But all races have great women and snobs. Thanks for your feedback.


Respectfully,

M

I live in Malaysia, and yea, asian girls are harder to get, asian girls here at least. I lived in the US for like 5 years and now living in malaysia, it was easier for me to get a girl there than it is here. So in another words, white girls are easier to get than asian girls, but then again i didnt have trouble getting asian girls in the states.

I was sarging in Singapore recently and generally YES Asian girls are considerably harder to game than whites.
I think I can break this into 2 main causes:

Language Barriers
Social Barriers

Asian people communicate differently to whites; it's a fact. Body language such as eye contact and kino is a very different language between East and West. The obvious other language barrier is the fact that they may well not understand you (although with the right tone, this doesn't really matter)

Socially Asian countries generally have much stricter views towards dating and sex to Western countries, and as such there is a mountain of social conditioning that needs to be broken down.

But remember, nothing is impossible

Yeah I forgot that... most of the Asian HBs in clubs are with Ah Bengs.... oh well.

When I get back to school, I'm gonna ask my asian friends (girls of course) why they are harder to pickup in public. Hmm maybe you could turn that into an opener *wink *wink. Off the top of my head: "Why do asian girls act cold to strangers? I bet you guys are no fun." Actually..hmm.. (brainstorming).. say, "My friend says that all asian girls tend to be cold towards strangers. And asians complain about sterotyped too much *shakes head in disapproval playfully* they're the ones who make the sterotypes true!.. hey can you guys drive well?...*grin* do you have small winkies?" I would game on from there... haha so there it is, a creation of an opener before your eyes...

I honestly see a trend in asian girls - they don't really open up until they are comfortable. Right now I'm seriously considering the possibilty of having to create comfort before trying to attract the girl. OR you can give the girl a reason to want to chase you. Do this through negs till they react. Humour works well for them too; I guess it comes down to calibration.

Possibly more on this later.

OH and the last point I wanna make, I don't believe race affects human beahviour whatsoever. People learn from their environment. My ex-gf's family friend was a middle aged Chinese woman who was born and raised in Jamaica. This woman has a Jamaican accent, is outgoing and speaks very loudly, which is reverse of what is expected of most asian people.

_________________
"This is your reality. It is what you make it"

Race and culture are not the same. RACE doesn't matter. Culture does play a role. If the girl and her parents are from a liberal western culture, then culture would dictate that race doesn't matter. However, if the girl is from Asia, the older generations won't allow her to marry outside of her race. One old chinese lady told me that I can have a chinese gf but not a chinese wife.

When it comes to dating someone from another country, Culture plays a role.

That being said, I've had the best results with using a direct approach. The other key thing is to just be relaxed and have fun and be confident.