Ok so this is the background.

Girl was in my school.
Easily a 9-10 EASILY in my eyes anyway but anyone who has seen heronly says "whoa" or holy shit! or DAMN!!!! lol
I talked to her a couple years ago very briefly on fb and asked her out but she had a bf. (she did not just saying it i dfound out later on) and that she cant really talk to boys because he willget mad (insecure fag) that I dont know if she still has.... she is not in a relatonship with him on fb though and that is the ony place i see her.. the thing is this... I hit her up the other day and tshe didnt reply so i ws like "still cant talk?" "still shy as can be.." no reply..

Now she is apparently a really sweet girl and she seems pretty nice. Always see ehr smiling when i used to see her never into any of that bitchy drama that i can see or hear of. I honestly just want to get to know her even if i dont take it any further.. i mean obviously going out would be the best, but how do i go about getting a response and a convo out of her on fb without seeming likea creep. I dont understand how that shit works cuz it seems creepy to just hit up someone random or someone like her on fb out of nowhere... However she does reply if i say happy birthday apparently lmfao rofl...

HEre's the deal.. I want to be sincere and i dont want to like smash her self esteem or anythnig because she isnt being a bitch so far and i dont want to be a dick to her for no reason and then have a lasting negative effect. However i dont want to come across as a faggot in trying to get something going....


Any ideas?

"come across as a faggot trying to get something going" I don't really understand where you're coming from with this. Are you asking how to chase after her and not be direct? because i don't think that's a good idea. Just be upfront and honest, but at the same don't be a needy suck up.

lmao just mean like i dont want to seem like a wuss.. or needy or a pussy or any of that shit cuz im not but messages of only text make personality hard to come through.. IN person id be much more comfortable but im never gonna see her again in person unless i do something onfb.

ohhhhhhhhh, In that case, get her phone number off facebook, then ring her, or just ask if she wants to come with you somewhere, on facebook.

Lol I wish it was thy easy. She doesn't respond and I want to get her too. I just want her to open up and just moving on isn't really the best option here that's giving up and I would like to push my chances as far as they will go with this girl

Give up for the time being. You don't want to be the needy guy that keeps messaging her and trying to get a response, You messaged her just wait and see what she does if she doesn't reply then just leave her and move on and then in a few months if she's online open her on FB chat with an opinion opener.......or look on this forum for good online game and start to look that up. Personally i don't really game online...as vocal tone, personality etc is hard to get across and i prefer one on one interaction.

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I was thinking the samething. Leave her alone for a while and if i see her on laer on maybe in the spring or summer open her again with something fresh, or if i see that she is single like if she changes her status. She didn't unfriend me so that seems like a viable option. I jsut dont want to give up on her totally forever.