ever since i have read pick up material... i found a new life.. i actually owe my life to it..anyways

its friday night round 9:15 pm right now

i feel like i have to go out. i have no money, i have final examinations at my university, none of my friends want to go out and I am really debating about going out bymyself...yes bymyslef. i feel like i am obligated to go.. Its friday I HAVE TO GO OUT. and this is why i feel like this

1). My teenage years sucked fucking ass eversince i moved away from nyc at 15. no social life whatsoever. i never went to prom, only had a gf in 9th grade for like 3 months before i moved to nc. in nc i never did the typical High school thing like have friends that you have to hang out with. never went to parties, never got invited anywhere, SAT BY MYSELF at lunch, i would often walk around school so i wouldnt be seen sitting by myself. on the weekends i sat in my room. played guitar. I SPENT THE FUCKING weekends in my room. these are times when teenagers learn to socialize, supposed to be the greatest time of your life. also did not have a carr most through out.

2). college was a little bit better. i played soccer for school but i didnt get playing time, and i eventually quit even though my assistant coach and other players knew that i deserved playing time. never got laid freshman year. i had a few makeouts, had fall through with my roomates, didnt have many friends, did not have a fake and it was hard tto do anything. everyone had women around them except me. i fell for a girl but she didnt reciprocate. got some actions but didnt lose my virginity. moved back in with my parents to finish university there. finally lost my virginity but not with that tsomeone special. i took wat i could get and not the best kind either

3) im in the last year of university and ive only gotten a few lays and some make outs. etc.but i had oneitis for this girl but that just about over with. ive noticed that time FUCKING FLIES. i have yet have very little experience. im not just talkinf about sex but life in general. i live with my parents and its hard because i like to keep everything seperate. i dont like to mix women with family, nor buisness nor academics or work. its a bad idea so i never mix anything in any combo.

so what tdoes these 3 things have to do with this post?

Well i feel like i have to go out because i missed out on life and i am getting older by the minute. In my head i see all these girls out having a good time tonite and everyone is having a blast except me. i'm 21 and turning 22 really soon. i want to get a gf my age because i always wanted to date my peer but i fell like i have to play catch up because 22 yr old woman is socialized extremly faster than a 22 male like mystery put it. I want girls around my age though i dont mind younger ones. but as i game them ( 21 and older) i feel it is much harder since they have ALOT more of experience.

SO, i feel like i have to go out pretty much every night to get more experienced and catch up. now i started reading pick up bout two years ago. I was readin not doing. but the past 4-5 months i've started doing. its been fucking awsome. AA sucks fucking ass but it worth the pain to get thru. i havent got any lays yet, but i have seen DRASTIC improvment in my game, and social interactions as well. Ive recently got over oneitis and because the best reason to get over it is to go out and get other girls is another reason, but not the sole reason.

so yea. I feel like have to go out because everyday i dont go out is time lost. you are only young once. this mentality of your only young once has drastically helped me approach without thinkin twice. i was going out everyday but i limited going out sarging on the weekends, but when i dont go out in the weekends it really starts ot get in my head. its bad to go out everynight and spend money but it is it just tthe inner urge to go out and gain as much experience as quickly as possible and play catch up

DOES ANYONE FEEL LIKE THIS? what do you guys do? any advice on how to overcome this feeling? is it bad to overcome this feeling?

Thanks
-Juice man

Hey man, I feel you. I've just started reading this forum a day or two ago and albeit it's been a really short time, I feel like it's going to help immensely.

I'm 17 and in a few days I'll be 18- good amount of friends (male and female), confident, but I've had literally 1 girlfriend for 5 months this summer and frankly, I was such an idiot and pussied out of doing anything because I hadn't done anything before and I was intimidated. If I had found this forum earlier, we'd probably still be together.

I even put some of the guides into practice today. When walking around, I watched my stance and tried to appear more dominant. It worked. These two girls checked me out, caught my eye, and smiled. Feels pretty damn good dude.

But I have to agree- we're only young once, let's enjoy it.

y i got the feeling.. not gettin laid really makes me feel that i need to go out more often and approach more girls so i can imrpove and get results.. if i dont approach atleast 1 girl a day i feel pretty shitty

also i cant really go out everyday, bars and clubs with people only on thursdag,friday,saturday

so i basically try to pick up girls at my univercity or just go around in the city center and malls

Juice, I understand you crave experience, but you're still very young so don't worry so much. I lost my virginity to a girl when I was 21, I'm 30 now and have had a loooooot of experience in between and it's just getting better! I know the itch you're feeling, as the sun begins to set and the city lights come on, you start to feel that itch to just go, to feel the adventure, with butterflies and all in your stomach. I know the feeling, it's a great feeling to have. With that said, you have to realize your priority should probably be the finals right now. If you go out, you'll spend money and the whole next day is probably fucked cuz you're hung over and can't study. It's all about timing, just make sure your priorities are straight, plenty of time to catch girls! Trust me, there is plenty of time even if you feel like you missed out so far. There's no need to catch-up for anything, just enjoy your life and let's face it, life won't be peachy if you fail your exams, you know what I mean? Use the "itch" as a motivation. Set studying goals and as you fulfill them reward yourself with a night on a town, sarging. The best part of your life is only about to begin, you haven't missed anything, trust me! So be at peace and do what you have to do. Hope this helped, cheers!

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thanks guys,, but i still feel pressure especially gaming girls my age... when i game older or younger,, i am CONFIDENT but when its my age,, i am extremley intimidated... idk why