Trying out Ok Cupid, is 25% response rate good?



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 10, 2011 5:40 pm 
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just wondering


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Of course 25 percent response rate is good. 1/4 is very high.


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Yes it is good, because chicks get bombarded by messages from guys, and there's a lot less social pressure for them to respond, so you must be doing something right. I've got a 20% response rate (even more gratifying is when I got contacted first). My profile is completely formulaic and based on the premise that a girl is going to spend two to five seconds deciding whether she wants to talk to me or not.

I put up my most interesting photos (I'm either well dressed, or with my marine buddies posing with tanks or machine guns or whatever gear or with my dog) in order pass the photo check. My profile is actually really long. But in the very first lines I have a hook about what different deodorants say about the different women who use them. Then after that brief paragraph, I say it's BS, although I did get them to sniff their own arm pits. It's interactive, it's funny, and immediately shifts the power balance in my favor.

I tried to keep things as funny as possible (I know this is completely subjective) so I say things like the first thing people notice about me are my assless chaps, for example.


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Higher than my rate, but I haven't tried to optimize it post PUA training.


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now this is interesting..

i never thought to mention dating websites like okcupid. i've been on there for about 4 months now and have already met up with 3 out of the 6 i've been building rapport with. 2 of which i f-closed..

okcupid imo, is an excellent way to meet women and get laid. it slightly works in your favor because it matches you to women who have simillar beliefs and interests. so if you've never heard of it i highly recommend giving it a go..

..i don't know what my respose rate is?
i will post it later.

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PostPosted: Sun Dec 11, 2011 3:40 am 
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Some dudes on here say that internet dating is bullshit, but I know heaps of guys that have got a tonne of F-closes off it including me, so how can you argue with that?

Yeah 25% is pretty friggen good, you must have a killer profile or be good looking. The best I can get is about 15%, 20% tops.

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Oh I've used it extensively. Most of my sex has probably been from OkC, including the hottest girl I've fucked.


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Actually my profile sucks balls. i saw how everyone says oh look cool by putting pictures of you doing so many awesome things

i decided okay i look at a girls profile, waht do i see 2 gay ass pictures of her and a shitty profile


to be honest even my real life game is doing the least possible work possible for the most results

so i'm like fuck it why bother micromanaging everything and stuff

i decided to just put up some random picture of me from 2 years ago up, a picture of me playing lacrosse but it was showing off my school, a webcam picture of me..albeit the picture is showing off a pretty nice watch, m and anotehr webcam picture of me in bad quality where i look like a hobo after movemeber, i don't add captions..i also had a crap ton of chest hair showing and stuff because i had my top 2 buttons unbottoned

my profile is so simple

i'm literally just saying
i'm awesome

for everything

and that's just repeated throughout

my looking for just says okay i'm young i'm not looking for a ltr


the profile means shit it's whatever you say i think and grabbing her attention


Girl #1
I wrote something to her, she asks me for my facebook and aim


girl #2
she calls me an idiot then sends her number

girl #3
agrees to a date and gives me her number

i haven't bothered responding back to the others yet, but a lot of the messages have numbers without me even asking for it


i literally just don't try at all and it works...i'm basically just giving off a chill vibe without constantly showing them it

but to be honest most of the girls responding haven't even looked at my profole yet


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In the spring my response rate was crazy - literally like a 50-60% response rate. I picked it up again a few weeks ago and I am like 0 for 15 so far which is insane. Same profile, same email style - very customized to the person's profile. No clue why it's so impossible now. Maybe more guys are on it during the colder weather?


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