I think creating a social circle and having a social life is the obstacle in front of me.

I conquered my aproach anxiety
i have aproched many women
I have used NLP to improve my inner game
I work out cause it makes me feel good
I look good, the man in the mirror tells me

I think having a social life is important because that is were your DHV's come from. if you are in the house all day how can you dhv to a women. how can you show social proof when you are alone in school in the gym everwhere.

I usually achieve social proof when i successfully open to both men and women.

so how important is it to create your social circle? I think it is very important in pua but tell me what do you think.

I want to share a story
when i moved to florida i didn't no anybody. i went to school and opened to a guy in the lunch line. he said "we should hang out" and bang i had a social life hanging with the dude, going to the movies and clubs.
I have never asked anybody to hang out. my friend asks people to hang out with him, he is dominant and the leader of the group. this guy invites me to the beach, the movies, the club and he told me theese exact words that i will never forget.

"Thanks to you guys I have a social life." this guy is a natural and doesn't even realize it.

so how important is the social circle?

Social circle is like base camp for me. I rely on it for my health, wealth, well being, and bridging connections. The more social you are, the more opportunities you have to be seductive. Seductive+sexual is what gets you the girl.

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

I'm not the most skilled guy here so take everything I say with a grain of salt.

BUT

The deeper I get into PUA the more I think that things like social proof, DHV, qualifying, AMOGing, and all that are all blown way out of proportion, and while things like that matter, the PUA community as a whole over hype it.

I know guys with great social proof who don't get laid, I know guys who have DHV stories coming out of their ears who don't get laid, I know guys who can AMOG who don't get laid.

In my opinion, the two key things to PUA is inner game and sexual escalation. If you can master these two things you don't need to worry about half the other crap that the community goes on about.

So having a good social circle important? Yes. Is it the most important part of PUA? Hell no.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

People come to PUA with their own goals. Some want one night stands. Some want to find a girlfriend some want something else.

So now the question from OP is is it important to have a good social circle?

The answer is yes, it is very important: If you're looking for a girlfriend/relationship

The answer is generally no, it's not AS important: If you're looking for a one night stand. Although this is not set in stone because there could be one bitch you're trying to get who happens to find a guy with a good social circle really attractive.


The fact you know people with DHV stories up to their tits etc. and they still don't get laid...well there is definetly some aspect of their character that's still AFC, or a missing link or...well you get the picture.

It's a combination of everything that gets you laid. Whether or not you're conscious of hitting all the right buttons or not, if you examine a successful night you will see that "social proof, DHV, qualifying, AMOGing, and all that" were all hit. DHV is a very important factor. Sure any chump could get lucky one night. But that's what it is. Luck. With PUA you own the situation. It's your world and we're just the people in it.