Recently I was trying to close this girl i had just met 10 minutes earlier . I was sure I had build up attraction(she was smiling and laughing plus we had a real good convo). Just before I was going for for her number, she says this "Oh my god, you are so funny. I have a friend like ten times hotter than me(she was a 7.5, so her friend is a 75 lol), you would be perfect for her!" I was stuck right here. This is exactly what I said "Uhhh...i dont...umm...maybe if shes hot... i dont know. She suggested to talk about it on facebook and she gave me her name and said goodbye.

So im gonna message her on fb soon, but dont want to go for her faceless friend, i think i like this girl.
I need help

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

Well yeah, you got served.

Is this a joke?

Nope this happened

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

And what are your thoughts on it? What was she up to?

It is possibly a shit test, but I think it is a LJBF.

Facebook friend her and do that game, but don't get your hopes up.

There are tons of girls out there. Don't fixate on this one.

I believe every girl is a target. You can get this girl. It was a shit test dude. And by the sounds of it you probably failed. But you can recover.

Okay, so when i talk to her, should pretend like her friend doesn't exist ?

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

Pretend? Her friend DOESN'T exist.


I still don't know if you're taking the piss or not.

taking the piss?

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

Taking the piss means joking.

why do you think im joking?

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

Because it's an obvious shit test to me. You could have answered her back saying something like "I'll be the judge of that" and you shouldn't have shown an interest in her "hotness"/looks. Remember, you are a selective guy. But if you're new to the game it's understandable that you wouldn't know this just yet.

Friend, the main takeaway is don't get hung up on this girl and don't let it affect your confidence long term.

It might be a shit test. It might be a "Let's Just Be Friends." It might be a straight up rejection.

Don't worry about it because you don't know.

Facebook friend her, communicate through that, and see what happens. Don't bring up her "friend." But don't bank on getting her either. Work on other girls too.

I think you will find that the shit test determines if it's going to be LJBF, Rejection or Banging the shit out of her. Don't listen to inexperienced people.