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"wine and dine them" :roll:

What a waste of money.
ewww, sounds like the worst idea possible,
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"Read MM"

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Don't buying her a drink when buying her a drink is probably the best bang for your buck you can get
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Don't buying her a drink when buying her a drink is probably the best bang for your buck you can get
Are you saying you SHOULD buy her a drink? What's the logic behind this? Have you taken into consideration the financial side of things? It is an expensive way to game.

Just intrigued as this seems like really strange advice to me. :?

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Don't buying her a drink when buying her a drink is probably the best bang for your buck you can get
Are you saying you SHOULD buy her a drink? What's the logic behind this? Have you taken into consideration the financial side of things? It is an expensive way to game.

Just intrigued as this seems like really strange advice to me. :?

The fact of the matter is doing what a lot of these people do is expensive as is

going out 20-30 straight nights is impossible for me as a college student

what's the harm in dropped $3 on a bud light for her or $5 on a diet coke and jack
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If i like the girl I'll buy her a drink, if i don't i won't it's that simple. like if i really like her i'm saying. If i feel like i'm going to go back with her, etc. I'll reward her more or less
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Reasons not to buy a girl drinks:

- Makes cash disappear
- Makes you look AFC
- Why is she sticking around? (for you or the free drinks?)

And saying most PUA is expensive is rubbish. The only time real PUA's encourage spending money is on clothing. My last F-close literally didn't cost me a cent.

I can understand you'd buy her a drink if an F-close is pretty much assured, but this is the ONLY time I'd buy a girl a drink. I'd never never buy them a drink prior to a K-close.

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Reasons not to buy a girl drinks:

- Makes cash disappear
- Makes you look AFC
- Why is she sticking around? (for you or the free drinks?)

And saying most PUA is expensive is rubbish. The only time real PUA's encourage spending money is on clothing. My last F-close literally didn't cost me a cent.

I can understand you'd buy her a drink if an F-close is pretty much assured, but this is the ONLY time I'd buy a girl a drink. I'd never never buy them a drink prior to a K-close.
the cost of cabs and cover charges do add up

it costs $10 to go downtown, again if you split it with people it comes to about $3-4 per person

but when you come back assuming you come back with a girl then you are paying the $11 back

so there's like $14 or so

cover charges sometimes they aren't there

but

$19

drinks

easily 30 spent per night out
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You're not giving me any REAL reasons to buy drinks. Saying you should buy drinks because you're spending money anyway isn't a REAL reason.

Seriously man my last lay cost me $0 and 0c.

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I would say categorically, 100% and with no exception DO NOT buy a woman a drink.

When she is your girlfriend or you are on a date you can buy a woman a drink but if you have just met her that night buying her a drink will telegraph your interest. Most of the time this is all the girl was after and a good point was made above that you don't know if she is sticking around for the drinks or for you.

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From my mother:

She said, you will never get a girl to like you if you are too mean and impulsive.

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From my mother:

She said, you will never get a girl to like you if you are too mean and impulsive.
One of the clingiest girls I've ever been with I was a ripe-royal asshole to. Used to call her a useless slut all the time, was always trying to kick her out of the house, would never call or initiate contact and I'd usually tell her to fuck off if she called me, AND SHE FUCKING LOVED ME FOR IT!!!

On the plus side she was absolutely amazing in bed, only reason I kept her hanging on.

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I must not understand "being yourself?" I never had any outside influence from age 0-17 on how to game, it was only my purest self. I never knew AFC, kino, openers and all that shit. So being my own unfiltered self I got ZERO girlfriends, and ZERO numbers; and I'm still not "strong" in any one thing because picking and choosing things in PUA is like asking for a ice cream cone with sprinkles, but no ice cream - its retarded. Maybe you had influence in your young PUA life when you had this preconceived notion or you were lucky enough to have natural game, but most guys don't so I can sympathize with what normally happens.
You perceived yourself as having no success so you had no success, don't blame it on "being yourself" because you weren't being yourself at all. Being yourself is knowing who you truly are, trusting yourself, and knowing your talents. If you know these three things then you will be successful in anything you try in life, guaranteed. Developing a fake coffee lounge or football buff personality isn't required for success with women. I am just letting you know this.
Maybe you just have natural game but being yourself doesn't work bro. Much like the guy who made the original comment, it wasn't until I was 17 and acted a bit differently around girls, outside of who I really was, that they started to like me. Didn't have a gf for 17 years then started not totally being myself and I get one? Not a coincidence. I'm confident in who I am and what I do but girls don't always want that. Just that way it is.
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Dont buy random woman you've just meet a drink, it comes off as trying to trade gifts for attention.

If it is a pre-planned date where you have already hooked the girl then it is acceptable to buy the drinks to reinforce gender roles and get her lubricated.

Advice your mom may give you to bed woman is normally going to be piss poor advice. Same as most advice woman would give you on dating, it comes from a space of idealism not reality.
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One up the bum no harm done

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