I am relatively new to pickup, I really haven't study PUA related things that much other than read The Game and watch the VH1 pick up artist and other things.


I have approached at least 25 women in my lifetime, all within this year, and from sarging a couple of times. This has resulted in me getting one number from a decent looking chick and I scored my first date ever in my life and also my first kiss, which was really awkward though.


I haven't sarged in a quite a while, and I am going to hit up a couple of places tomorrow.

In the past I've never used any kind of pua techniques and started with a "Hey how's it going" progressing to "Are you from _____" " What do you do for work"

I feel kind of skeptical of using openers because it seems very obvious I'm trying to pick them up and doesn't feel right to me.

What are some quick things I can look over before tomorrow night?

My biggest challenge to pick up is caring about what other girls think of me if I try to pick them up, such as girls thinking im a creep, and fear of rejection.

Is it good idea to befriend guys so that I can use them as wingmen?

It's the fear that will hold you back. However it's easier said than done. Try to feel like you don't give a shit what people think. If you fuck up Who cares, learn from mistakes.

As for the PUA openers. I have never not used them, they are must. The AFC will ask AFC questions. Your trying to leave all that behind. Try different openers she which work best for you. Try the jealous girlfriend operner or the dental floss one. Then try some negs on your target. Run a couple of DHV routines like the cube or something. Try a bit of push pull. By now you should have had a few IOI's. When your ready say you have to leave and try for a number or a kiss close

Good Luck