Alright so this is a weird one (well i think lol)

first off my policy was to always meet girls publically, until some buddy of mine told me about plenty of fish (lol yah i know) n i gotta admit, it works for gaining tail (but some are super clingy weird)


So i met this girl we hung out had a great night, got pretty drunk good time..
We talked daily after that for about a week. In that time I went to her little sisters dance recital, met her mom n step mom / friends. She had a night she didint wana go out so she had me go over to her place n watch a movie.

We have done nothing except some kissing/ kuddling type o thing.

So this week shes got finals (college) and works (she starts at 9am work then finishes school @ 10pm).
Sunday we last hung out, monday we text like normal i try to call her at night no response I just left a message (i was sorta drunk but didint say anything stupid just prolly sounded stoopid lol)

I hit her up Tuesday to see if i can take her out n she replies:

I cant i am so busy with work and finals and projects and stressed this week and my back is fucked up thank you though

we text a little like 2 or 3 more and she dosnt reply on my last.
So i give her a day of radio silence. Next day text her hope shes feeln better (in a playful type -o- way) no response.

however 30min later she responds to my facebook post "first time eating red meat in 8 years woooowowowo" n she sasys: "And I wasnt there >=("


so basically she answered my fb but not my text? or phone call? She went out with her girls one night got home like 2am but i was out to so i dont know what she was up to. Everything seemed to be going awesome, did she just decide she dosnt have time for a guy? or did i do something wrong? Or is it just like she says? (lol)

I ask cuz ive done the ultimate cheeze ball thing and totally fell for this one hahaha

You are too Available - where is the Challenge for her?

I have to agree with Marc here. You seem like you have created a lifestyle that revolves around her availability. She has obviously pulled away, reverting to the simplest and most informal form of communication….f-book.

Challenge her

-TA

hey guys thanks for your responses!


so it went about a week of her giving me distance.

I basically sent her a text (being a afc) saying i like her a lot n dont know whats up but good luck. I guess in the end she said i was "manning her to much...you called me dude".... lol So i switched gears, got my second chance.

Long story short, went out with her last night ate sushi, and ended up sleeping together... truth is I am really into her n I think shes into me...just playing it slow.


I guess every girl has there differences, n im hooked.