Couple weeks ago got this girls number. She is 31 and I'm 26, she found out my age and said nothing would happen because of that. First date (just a couple of hours in a bar) nothing happened, had a good time though. Went out with her for dinner and bowling on Saturday then she came back to mine for a couple of hours. She is a really shy girl and kino isn't easy. I'm always flirty and she doesn't tell me to stop it, she made me a cd with running tracks for when I go running (I hadn't asked her to) but the furthest I have got with her is a kiss on the lips! I'm getting mixed signals and she is hard work... HELP!

Don't take this the wrong way, but have you even tried to have sex with her?
So why do you stop? Keep escalating, and see what happens.

Pic: some motivation.

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She won't even stick her tongue down my throat yet! Lol I have never had this many mixed signals before. So no I haven't tried to have sex yet, but only because its not at a level where that's going to happen

Women respond to sexual tension as much as, if not more, than kino. Have you tried that?

Some girls just aren't into tongue actually. Just worth noting encase you thought it was an iod

I'm 23, older women are my thing. Many times it's just about the context you put the situation in, the guys are right, you want to increase kino, along with sexual tension. Next time she's back to your place, watch a movie, put a hand on her leg, look her in the eyes and kiss her, then go back to watching the movie. Do some push-pull, rub her hand, especially her palm, smile at her, then stop touching her, lean in close, as if you're going to kiss her, and ask if she wants a drink. Go and get a drink, and her one if she asks, put them down, and kiss her. Do this throughout a night and she should be ready to go to bed with you.