My Sister is a year older than I (21 years old) and historically we have never been close, or hang out or even talk a whole lot.

Unfortunately my older sister is quite popular and I will be the first to admit that she has some of the hottest friends and connections In the region. What kills me about this is that during my High School years, my game suffered from her telling my potential lays stupid things about me and how immature I am with girls, or that I had no Social ability whatsoever.

This is clearly not true as I have moved out of town two years ago and traveled across North America for work and Music Gigs etc. and I have large social circles in cities I have only lived in for a few weeks / months. So I realize that I am good socially, but when my sister is present I have terrible success with girls. This is a problem because I have just accepted a job back in my hometown for an 8 month contract.

Is there ANYTHING I can do to make use of her as an asset as opposed to a detriment? And eventually I would like to work my way into her friend circle and pick-up some of her friends.

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"Always desire to learn something useful." - Sophocles

LMAO

DUDE

YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE TO START AMOGG'ING YOUR SISTER IN FRONT OF PEOPLE

THIS IS CLASSIC

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

yea I have to say It's not an easy position am in hahah.

do you think AMOGing is going to work better than if I find a way to befriend her more, rather than making her hate me more.

I have tried this angle before but she will continuously get louder and angrier until its ridiculous that they have not kicked her out of the bars. She refuses to acknowledge that I'm more alpha than her (shes like that undisarmable bitch you see every 1 in a million times at a bar ). However, when I do try to overpower my sister, her friends love it (who are ultimately the targets) but it never seems to go anywhere.

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"Always desire to learn something useful." - Sophocles

Im open to all options and views on this btw

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"Always desire to learn something useful." - Sophocles

Sounds like you're focusing on gaming the group to much, instead of just targeting one of her specific friends. Are you letting your ego out of this? Or are you constantly striving to be the winner in the group, let go of the ego, just do what you want, don't worry about beating your sister, it's not a competition.

there is a wee hint of competition here, but my hometown is actually very small (around 10 000 people) and she is close friends with a few of my most desired women in town.

basically I need to make a move on this girl (HB 8.6 tall Russian) that I may never see again. Unfortunately she is one of my sisters best friends.

In all reality It would be nice to even have a closer relationship with my Sister as my family is quite spread out and me and her are the only ones living in Canada at the moment.

Is there any way that you can repair a sister-brother relationship like this? I think that this would be a massive boost to my social circle in general as I am often seen as the guy that moved to get away from home.

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Well if it doesn't make it better, I can see it making it worse. Doesn't sound like you have a lot of options as far as girls go, but you shouldn't let that worry you. Treat these girls as if there are a thousand other girls waiting for you around the corner. If you do any sucking up because of their relationship with your sister, i can't see it working out well for you.

Lol @ the rating 8.6, if that wasn't a typo for 8.5

lol yea. Im very precise and sometimes harsh with my grading system. The highest I have ever seen was probably 9.1/9.2 but they're basically just numbers that pop into my head.

might have something to do with the amount of time playing sports games on xBox before college as in 9.0 would be like an 90 in sports games (basically world class) haha

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i'm sorry, but

your sister is a huge (and effective) cockblock

you need to somehow isolate the russian and escalate

in a "sister-free" environment

she's had a lifetime of pefecting her cockblocking on you

there is no diffusing that

you have two options:

- game other women
- game her friend while she is not within 50 miles

you need to take her friend for a weekend away....

secretly

no sister...pussy all night long

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

This is retarded, she's your fucking sister go talk to her...she's family why are you ignoring her

the thing is she probably isn't even cockblocking you, it's probably all in your head and finding fault in her...

I was going to say the same thing, but to be honest it's not that retarded to have family compatibility issues.

My ideas

1) It's in your head
2) If it bothers you go tell her straight, you've known her for 20 fucking years
3) maybe you just want to fuck your sister? go to a therapist

What don't you try to sort things out with her? She is your sister for Christ sake!
What's done is done. Try to fix things. Having great realtionship with your sister is such a great thing. I have a younger sister and we love each other to death.

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I have to return some videotapes...

not everyone's family is the same.

you shouldn't call people "retarded" until you've walked a mile in their shoes.

i have brothers and sisters i don't even speak to, as they are worthless human beings who have stolen from me, lied to me, and were never there when i needed them.

and i'm not retarded.

actually, i'm going for my third college degree right now.

own my own business.

and am a fairly decent-looking guy with my head screwed on straight.

judge not lest ye be judged

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Dude, quote rastafarian, not me, i didn't call anyone retarded.