So I was thinking about this coffee date I had about a year ago in the birth pangs of my rAFC days.

She was an arts major and had some retro tshirt... (Thundercats/SPAM/you can tell how important the logo was in my head) and at some point in the conversation I was like, "that is an awesome shirt" and she goes, "Yeah isn't it great!" and then faces me directly stretching the bottom of the shirt out so I can clearly see the logo on top of a pair of c-cups.

Now I've come upon more general rules of, "don't do the elevator stair etc..." but when she wants you to directly stare at an image that just happens to be above her boobs how do you interpret? Invitation? Shit test?(wants to see how you react, perv or no?)

I think my reaction was along the lines of *head nod*+"yes cool shirt" w/ subtext of 'I'm trying really hard to look like I'm genuinely interested in the logo and not in yer rack."

I always wondered what the best way to react in those situations is. I feel like with this girl it would have been too strong a come on to be like, "Ohhhh yeaah... I also like what's under SPAM's 'hood' ".
Or some other way to sexualize it appropriately...

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Why would of that been too strong a come on? Unless it's going against your personality a lot, as you don't have any sarcastic tonality, then i think it would have been great escalation.

Seems like she clearly wanted to know what you thought of her tits.

Yeah I guess in the case of shy hipster girls, I'd want to find something more subtle.

Not that I'm the kind of guy to shy away from a direct come on, but there's a difference between the girl in a low-cut glittery tanktop with a push up bra being like, "Do you like my breasts in this shirt?", and a girl with large frame glasses trying to show off her childhood tv show trivia, naw mean?


For future reference, I'm thinking of something along the lines of, "Yes, in fact that shirt is so awesome I think we should trade."
And then if I've done enough kino before hand, act as if I'm going to lift up her shirt, or if you have anything better than a jelly sack underneath yours, lift your shirt up as if for trade.

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Good shit dude, sounds like a fun opportunity to feel

I think you should of said it just because it is fucking hilarious.

Made me laugh

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