Chatting with this chick on facebook. Here's how it went down with the HB9.

Note - *When I type like this, it wasn't in the message*

Me: Had to tell you that you have a pair of amazing eye lashes. Are they real?
Her: No i wish
Me: *Notices her nails are fake* Lol it's OK. Your nails make up for it
Her: my nails? haha fake too
Me: Fooled me ha. You wont get offended if I nickname you Barbie?
Her: Yeah i would lol.. Shes a dumb blonde. Im a blue:) thats natural though
Me: Oh that's right. I missed the hair. So if you're not a barbie, then you're a troll?
Her: Lol yeah
Me: You seem pretty outgoing. What do you have heading for you other than your looks?
Her: Lol idk!
Me: "Idk"... wow you seem very interesting *I wish I said "I think I'm falling for you" following that statement*
Her: I dont like talking about myself

So yea I currently have to respond to this shit test. (That is a shit test, right?) Need some ideas on how to respond to this. I'm trying keep that fun flirty vibe I had initially, then the boat just sank!

This is what I'm thinking: "That's too bad. I was about to propose to you, via facebook, but you broke my heart.. nvm"

Why not try talking to her in person? From the conversation it seems like shes not interested in talking. Trying to use canned material in texts/fb chat can come across as creepy. Girls love talking about themselves so it seems like she's just trying to end the conversation, ie she starts responding with two word answers that don't continue the convo. If you are always the one trying to keep the conversation going then you are "chasing" her and you demonstrate lower value.

Cuz I haven't met her in person, so I need the # close before I do so.

She was extremely hot and we had mutual friends, so i added her on fb. Don't usually do so, but i Figured what's the worst that could happen.

We haven't talked prior to this

Hey, dude.

If you can't manage to get her number off facebook, just ask her straight out on facebook if she wants to meet up with you.

Yeah tough situation here. Try asking one of your mutual friends to bring her to an event/party or dinner sometime. Then talk to her there.

Don't add people you've never met in real life.

there are no shit tests in this log, she is just investing less then you and she is in control of the frame

I don't see a shit test here either. I'd neg/tease her a little more. She seems to be getting a little bored.

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