Im gonna call her later to set up a date tomorrow or friday. What are the do's and donts re: the call? .

Always call after you say you will.

Then make plans and last second flake. tell her you won't be able to make it

What? Text saying im gonna call? The second suggestion are you joking??!

-Already have your date location picked out; and a bounce location
-Call and be polite with some casual chit chat but get to the point of setting up the date since that is the reason you are calling.
-Smile when you are talking on the phone She'll be able to hear it.
-Be in a good mood when you call
-Don't speak too fast, take your time annunciate your words

GOOD LUCK!

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

I have little money for a week now. I was thinking about going window shopping then to a bar???

Getting a drink is the perfect 1st date. If it's boring, easy to cut it short. If it's good an hour or two of drinking/conversation followed by an invite back to my place.

Cool.


I've k closed this girl about 7 times now. She held my hand at a gig last week. Shes used a zaney text saying her friends brother said 'were such a good looking couple...such a strong relationship...'


SURELY I cant fuck this up

Shit. My luck.


Rang....no answer...


Text follows:

'Im at the cinema, waddaya want? x'


I replied


"Hey, i'll speak to you after the film x'


Does her being out hold the value for her??



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Kinda stoked.

Overthinking it, just talk to her after the movie and set it up.

Cool. Sarcasm and stuff works well with her...she has a wild sense of humour (drama student)


Im thinking...high energy....my dad has just got facebook and im a tad freaked out by him ....a good story?



Also.... 'Hey since Im so rich until payday and my work is done...we should go get some drinks at *****... what are you doing tomorrow afternoon?'

People cant answer phone calls all the time, men and women alike for all kinds of reasons. She texted you right away and told you why.. not sure what your worried about here.

"Does her being out hold the value for her??"

What are you even talking about? Are you saying did she just gain some kind of power or value over you because she's at the movies? Hell no.. dont worry about what she is doing with her time apart from you.. it has nothing to do with you. You are overthinking this too much

Excellent.


Yep...thats my weakness...over thinking in all parts of my life.


I'll wait for her to get in touch after the film. Then I'll ask her what shes doing tomorrow as Im free after 4 and we should meet up.


If shes busy I'll say similar for friday. I know shes not here saturday and I'm at a night anyway.


I've never k closed someone this many times and it not worked out well so I should be ok. The IOIs are plentiful.

Sounds like you just need to have more of a cave man approach and you'll be sweet.

Do you think it's healthy to be thinking about what she's doing and how that makes her look in comparison to you?

As others said, you're over thinking this.

Be cool, calm, collect and confident about everything you do.

Personally, I enjoy going to a place where conversation is very easy for the first or second date. Like a museum, walk through an outdoor market, etc. The point is, this girl will always remember this date because no other guy has brought her a to a museum to flirt. With no other guy has the first few dates been so smooth and comfortable, without major blanks.

Then again, if you're attempting 60YOC to greatly build sexual tension, you might want blanks. In that case, you can definitely create them. Just look at her while imagining kissing her neck and having your hands in her pants.

Point taken.


Define 'caveman' ? ha


I've flirted alot with her. I've kept it sexual even if no sex is yet forthcoming... something I never did with other girls and ended up F-zoned.


The other night I said 'I cant concentrate on this band I keep thinking about fingering you in here'


10 mins later we're making out watching said band and holding hands later.


My best lessons thus far have came from 60YOC I think.


Granted I KNOW this girl doesnt fuck random guys....but I'm just having anxiety making a leap towards getting serious with her... for fear of the f-zone.