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I am going to her place this weekend, and I don't want to pose a threat. I don't want her to feel weird.
Everything you say is good, except for this. With this attitude you'll get nowhere. Be sexual, and make it weird. Chief has great post on sexual state and frame.
As for your question about kino, it all depends. But one thing is for sure. No kino, no girl. Use a lot of accidental kino, sometimes just touch her and sometimes hold her and let your touch linger for a while. Once she is used to you toching her, just escalate it.
IMO, you shoulnd go to her place, but invite her to yours. Invite her for a late movie, just tell her you'll have things to do in the evening and tell her to come around 11. And tell her to bring movie, and you'll get something to eat. It's easy to escalate from there.
If she comes, she knows she's coming from more that a movie. adn you're good to go.
good luck