hi guys im 16 i have been trying to be a pua for a while, but here is my issue sometimes i freeze ,i have all the IOIs and i am not able to call the girl and go on day 2 . it happened to me today and a froze i went halfway i said : "I am Going to the movies" and changed the subject, i couldn't finish it
any toughts are welcome

i have read The Game by neil Straus
and i am reading full facts of cold reading
and the the mistery method

Thanks

Lithium

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How Can you be right for somedy else if you are not right for yourself - Sammy Davis Jr.

Sounds to me like it would help you to relax a little.. This is supposed to be fun. Why do you think you are freezing up? You literally just stopped mid sentence of asking her out for day 2 and changed the subject? How did the day 1 go, did you kiss her? When you talk to girls you want to have a strategy, but not a plan. A premeditated mindset/attitude and a general goal for talking to her.. but not a specific planned out conversation in your head about exactly what you are going to say and she is going to say. This leads to things not going the way you planned, and you feeling like you are stuck "freezing up" because you think you dont have things to say. You need to just be natural, freezing up doesnt happen to an alpha. Just think before you speak, say what you mean with confidence.. Practice this on yourself, your family, your friends, and women..

I love how guru worked; "When you talk to girls you want to have a strategy, but not a plan" Great quote. Solid advice too.

i said day 2 ? oh well, its like this i have been studying with this girl for a while but i only started to talk to her last week, before i only said hi and all, using a version of the mistery method like the social proofing a small neg every now and then, i got a butload of IoIs its been like almost 10 IoIs in the day i posted the first message. here is the issue we were alone in the subway i had everything under control i was getting to the point of kissing her and i couldn't bring myself to do it . so i decided to ask her
i knew the answer because of the IOIs but couldn't bring myself do that either. You asked if had kissed her , and no i have not , also i am the most tense person on the face of the earth. Any toughts?

Lithium

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How Can you be right for somedy else if you are not right for yourself - Sammy Davis Jr.

Getting into state is very important for a person like you.

What is state?

It’s that feel good feeling, where you feel like you can be yourself, you are outside your head, not thinking of what to say, gold is flowing out of your mouth, and you can get away with whatever you want…

Do you have any hobbies/sports you are good at?

For example, I play basketball. Whenever I play basketball I get into 'state' this means I'm in the zone, I only focus on the game.

You don't need hobbies/sports to get you into state, but those are the biggest examples I can give.

Just ask her out!!

Anything you're passionate about, just talk about it, not only will you have a lot to talk about, but it'll also come across enthusiastically which will make her enjoy herself.

very interesting i dont play sports, i love soccer but i suck at it
i do love magic and thats actually how i found out about the PUA community
someone told me here is a magician that gets girls and then i read the Mistery Method
i think i will ask her out, but why are my hobbies correlated with my asking her out?

Lithium

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How Can you be right for somedy else if you are not right for yourself - Sammy Davis Jr.

it's not correlated, look let me try to explain again

when you're showing magic tricks to people or doing it by yourself. Do you find yourself in a state that allows you to successfully pull it off? Like you aren't nervous to mess up the trick because you're 100% confident that it will work out.

Hey nice tips, sounds really good! thanks for sharing with us.