This girl I've been k closing alot sent me the following text:


'*******'S brother says, of me and you, were a really good looking couple and we look very cool. Such a strong relationship'




What the hell would you say back? We're not going out or anything and tend to k close when were on nights out with mutual friends. This has happened about 6 times now and I've yet to try and establish something more serious.



**She is a drama student i.e. quite zaney so sometimes I never know is shes joking or not in text

Are you seriously asking advice?

There's no problem here.

I've never asked her out


Why is she saying that? She is being zaney I think?


I replied 'Yeah I am pretty rad. Anyway, How about ****** for the first born name? '


She replied: 'Took a while to reply there, i was starting to worry we'd split up. First born I had in mind *****'

Seems like everything is fine to me.Just completely ignore those comments, like she's said nothing, talk about what you actually want.

Im a bad worrier. Always have been




How do I progress from kissing on nights out to something more?


Im pretty into this girl now so I'd like to meet up with her for a date basically.


Simply ring her up tomorrow have a bit of a laugh on the phone with her and ask when shes free?

yeah sure do that, but fit her into your schedule

for example

"hey we need to hangout or something, I'm available on tuesday and friday, I have plans for the other days."

dont use it word for word, but you get the idea right? fit her into your schedule

2:35, you said it yourself, just ask her to do something with you though, no need to ask her when she's free, if she's keen on you, she'll make time.

Update



We were talking on the phone, she asked if I was coming to this night tomorrow evening.


I said I cant as Im working, but she said her and a mutual (male) friend are gonna go down.

Shes friend zoned him already months ago, and he seems to have accepted this.


I neglected to ask her if she wanted to do anything with me later this week.

I didnt wanna appear like I was doing it spur of the moment because of her going out tomorrow etc.


Right move?


Oh also, just remembered, she grabbed my hand in the club we were in when we were watching this cool band play and held it for like 10 mins.


Again, solid IOIs...I just need to get shit sorted and arrange a 1 v 1 date scenario