HOW TO BECOME GOOD AT SEX
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REALLY fucking good. Give her continuous multiple orgasms back to back. That will make her fall in love with you and sex with any other guy will not be the same anymore.
From Ryan Oceros, MethodOne and Me
The first part is doing foreplay correctly.
If you slowly build her up over 20-30 minutes before penetration, touching all the non-sexual parts first, lightly, dirty talking and telling her all the stuff you're GOING to do to her, how hot she is, how amazing her skin feels, how you can't wait to be inside her, then believe me once you start she'll already be ready to blow!
Secondly is good technique going down on her, you want to give her a clitoral orgasm first before you penetrate if possible. Don't go for the clit straight away, kiss her inner thighs first and around the area, then the outer lips, and then around the inner lips and start gently and slowly around the clit as it starts to get filled with blood and she gets wet. Use a range of motions (circles, up and down, side to side) and see how she reacts - some girls will have one side that is more sensitive. Once you find what works, noticing how her body reacts and how she breathes or moans, build up to a certain pace, not too fast, and HOLD IT. When you feel like she's getting towards cumming (and this is true for penetration too) DO NOT change the motion or the pace (a lot of guys get excited when they hear her moaning louder and speed up) otherwise she'll lose it and you have to start again and she can get frustrated.
Next is using one or two fingers to stimulate her g-spot, which is just a touch past her pubic bone on the front wall of her pussy. You want to stimulate this using a "come hither" motion, slowly and gently at first. The g-spot feels like a spot with a different texture than the rest of the vaginal wall, and as you stimulate it, blood will circulate to that area and it begin to swell and it will get bigger and harder. At this point you can increase pressure and speed, up to a point, until she cums. If done right many women will squirt from this. MAKE SURE YOUR FINGERNAILS ARE CUT AND SMOOTH.
Once the clit and g-spot are stimulated like that, penetration should be able to give her as many orgasms as you have the stamina for. Good positions are ones in which the angle of the penis is such that it is hitting that upper wall. For example, doggystyle with the angle pointed downwards (one of women's favourites), her on top leaning backwards, the lotus, and missionary with a pillow under her and you leaning backwards thrusting upwards.
You can also stimulate the underside of the vaginal wall i.e. the wall between the anus and vagina, using the same come hither technique except a bit further in and with your hand the other way obviously. If this stimulation feels good to her, then anal sex, which hits the same spot from the other side, can give her an orgasm too.
Finally the deep spot can be stimulated in the same way although penetration is easier than reaching your fingers that far back. Be careful to not go so deep you hit her cervix as this is painful!
However, these techniques will not work if you fail to build her up into the right sexual state first. If the emotion is there for her, she will cum a lot lot easier.
talk dirty to them. tell them what you are about to do
girls like to visualize
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A study about ten years ago found that women respond MUCH more to mental stimulation than men. In the study, men and women were asked to read erotic stories, and blood flow to their genitals was measured with a non-invasive device as they read. The women, as I recall, had an increase in blood flow to their genitals that was approximately 7 times greater than the men. To get a good erection, many men need physical contact, not necessarily to the penis, but between themselves and their lovers. Women, on the other hand, can become extremely wet without their lovers ever touching them at all. Some rare women can even climax just from the power of their own imaginations. What does this tell us? It tells us that physical stimulation of a woman's erogenous zones is only a part of foreplay and cannot constitute the whole if your goal is to fully please her. You must arouse her MENTALLY as well as physically.
There are many ways to do this. Dirty talk is one way, but don't go overboard and tell her you're going to "nail her in the stink-tube." Paint her a vivid mental image of what you're going to do to her and whisper it to her as you initiate foreplay (ie, while you unbutton her shirt or something): "First I'm going to kiss my way from your left shoulder toward your right shoulder. When I reach your neck I'll move up and kiss my way to your earlobe, then move slowly back down, kissing on the base of your neck with my tongue and nibbling gently on your skin." Let her picture that in her mind. It will give her goosebumps. Even if YOU don't know exactly where on her neck she likes to get kissed, her MIND will fill in the blanks and imagine a perfect series of kisses tracing the exact line you described. Then, follow through on your promise, to the best of your ability. Then come up to kiss her, and tell her about a couple more minutes worth of what you're going to do to her. Etcetera.
I especially like do this when i am about to change positions. Like "im gonna fuck you so fuckin hard doggy style" or "oh spread your legs"
then i just do what i just said for a little bit, a little grunting in between, a little slapping of the butt, tits or brief kisses, and then say something like this right before i want to switch positions again. keep going until...
Last, is the after sex cuddling is such a golden opportunity that guys miss out on. In that moment after sex when you're laying there spooning or whatever, you can ask her ANYTHING and she'll be completely 100% honest with you. You can actually work on your game by asking her if she remembers what you first said to her, how you guys met, what initially attracted you to her, when she had the inkling of when she felt like sex was gonna happen, and you'd be surprised how detailed she will remember these things! This is a great time to have the relationship talk and also a great time to ask her about her fantasies, likes, what she wants, so that you can give it to her even better next time!
Enjoy all the great sex bros!
J Slay
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