okay so i went out sarging last night with 2 of my buddies. they know ive been reading up about pua techniques so we were supposed to give it a try tonight. what ended up happening was they relied on me to approach and do openers but being pressured and the only one with anything memorized i choked. now granted we were at a loud club and alot of the openers and routines i know were not suitable for the setting but i needed to approach and say something. I broke the 3 second rule at least 10 times and didnt approach anyone. only danced with 1 or 2 girls because the rest probably thought i was weird just chillin for a few minuets and then trying to dance with them. anyways, anyone have any advice for me in this situation? i live in a small town where that one club is all you can drink for cheap so its one of the only things to do around here.

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Keep practicing those openers. My advice would be to practice them with your buddies at first letting you do the whole routine without saying much. Then after you are smooth with that then let them throw you some minor curves to get you on your toes and ready for what a girl may say.

The other part of that is you want to really adhere to the 3 second rule as much as you can because it starts building the habit of approaching. By breaking it you are building a bad habit of not approaching and thinking too much about the set ahead of time. We all go through this now that you are aware of it just stay concious of it and approach.

Since you are in a small town my challenge would be for you to become really social inside the club. Don't just approach women approach guys, mixed sets, etc and really work to just chit chat with them some. Then on the girl sets you like hang out longer. The reason for this is simple. In a small town especially if you are just approaching girl sets its gonna get out you're a player or something to that extent. IF you are social with everyone its kind of hard to call you out on being just a ladies man, you are then just the fun social guy everyone talks to.

Best of luck,

Jon

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Wow great advice! I know my friends would be down to listen to whole routines and probably end up learning a few of their own.

I've heard enough times now to just start approaching even if I don't know what to say. I know i'll say something and it won't hurt me, just make me better. This is something that I know might be somewhat hard at first but I feel that doing mixed sets and being more social at the club can help. This makes perfect sense to me and I cant wait to give it a try Friday. Thanks Jon!

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In wch thread can i find the "3 second rule".I was using the search button and it fetched 16,218 results.

Well there are lots of references to it. The 3 second rule is very simple to explain. You have 3 seconds from spotting your target or someone you are interested in speaking to...to get from where you are standing to in front of her. Another words it forces you to not think about what you are about to do but just approach, and keep you in the habit of approaching women. Yes sometimes it takes a few more seconds to walk over to her, but the point is you see someone you wanna talk to, start walking....

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Can you give me a little details more.

Suppose I am standing on not so crowded road (and police r nearby),what do i say to any stranger, I mean what meaningful can I ask to the lady.

the 3 second rule is. as the guy above said, that u have 3 seconds from the moment u spot ur target, to start talking to them. this is not something that will boost ur game or fascinate the girls more.
its just a precaution meassure u have to take.
the 3s rule os actually the maximum time u are allowed be4 ur feelings and emotions get into play and u chicken out be4 u make ur move.
as Mystery said, ur feeling are only there to confound you, so dont trust them.

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as for the real question on this thread, well, i always go sarging with 2 of my buddies.
without meaning to we have adopted roles
the 1st is the opener, he always says the openers to chicks and after all this time, he has gotten really good at it...
the other is the scout. the scout scans the field in order to spot the best set.
and im the booster. if my friends are bored, i pretend the low-life, pussy dependant geek who will hammer the others' heads till we go and talk to the chicks XD
in case u didnt notice, none of the roles has anything to do with the game itself but with the approach. wich leads us back to the previous answer.
Your feeling are only there to confound you. the moment u spot ur target, just walk up on them and start the game.
even if u fail, who gives a shit?

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if u dont like smthing, or smthn didnt go the way u planned it, kick it out of your world

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