I once posted about pet peeves, it got a lot of attention so I thought I would do this.

Are there things women do at bars/clubs/parties that will immediately turn you off? No matter how hot or cool she seems, things that will obliterate any desire you had to talk to her, much less fuck her? I have a short list of things that will immediately sap my interest in a girl. Yes...I'm picky, I know

1. Random pictures: This is the one that got me a lot of negative attention last time, so why not lead with it? I absolutely hate when girls ask me to take their picture. If it's a special occasion, birthday, holiday, etc, I will suck it up and take a pic if someone asks. What I hate, though, is when a group of girls asks for you to take their picture because it's Friday, and they need 20 more photos to add to the 30,000 they already have of weekend nights out on facebook. If I'm not the girl's friend, I will say no if they ask for me to be picture-bitch

2. Tiaras: Women wearing tiaras, and to a lesser extent crowns, are always trouble. Women only put these on when they plan on getting extremely wasted

3. Drinking contests with dudes: Ever have a girl challenge you to chug beers or go shot for shot? There is a very short list of women that can drink on pace with men, in my life anyways, and those 3 girls do not challenge everybody to do that. Women who challenge me to drink are wasted 4 shots later crying.

4. Fat friends: Ever notice that when women wing, its always about tricking guys into talking to/dancing with/seeing their fat friend? It's awful lol. We've all been there if you are going to a club, there's a group of girls and you start talking to one, and they all practically throw the linebacker girl. At least when dudes wing we (should, anyways) make it clear who is the one interested in talking to her, as opposed to girls who will flirt with you then pull a bait n switch!

5. Asking for favors as strangers: I hold doors open, I make an effort to let people by as I walk through a bar. I'm not a dick. But when girls ask me to buy them a drink, or to let them in front of me in a line, I say no. It bugs me that some girls assume that, for being female, they are entitled to that shit

So that was a minor rant. In pickup, these are situations I will have to deal with often just by going out so often as I have started doing. Are there things that bother you that women do when they go out? Do you disagree? How do you deal with women that commit any of these...let's call them faux pas?

I once posted about pet peeves, it got a lot of attention so I thought I would do this.

Are there things women do at bars/clubs/parties that will immediately turn you off? No matter how hot or cool she seems, things that will obliterate any desire you had to talk to her, much less fuck her? I have a short list of things that will immediately sap my interest in a girl. Yes...I'm picky, I know

1. Random pictures: This is the one that got me a lot of negative attention last time, so why not lead with it? I absolutely hate when girls ask me to take their picture. If it's a special occasion, birthday, holiday, etc, I will suck it up and take a pic if someone asks. What I hate, though, is when a group of girls asks for you to take their picture because it's Friday, and they need 20 more photos to add to the 30,000 they already have of weekend nights out on facebook. If I'm not the girl's friend, I will say no if they ask for me to be picture-bitch


Ain't nothing wrong with this man. For me i love it when women ask me to take their photo for them and it's easier for you to OPEN set(s) at the club/bar.

2. Tiaras: Women wearing tiaras, and to a lesser extent crowns, are always trouble. Women only put these on when they plan on getting extremely wasted

Not exactly some of them are just wearing that and just wants to have fun and maybe they just want to look cool with those tiaras and maybe they feel like a princess or something?

3. Drinking contests with dudes: Ever have a girl challenge you to chug beers or go shot for shot? There is a very short list of women that can drink on pace with men, in my life anyways, and those 3 girls do not challenge everybody to do that. Women who challenge me to drink are wasted 4 shots later crying.


This is fun because you already know who's gonna get drunk


4. Fat friends: Ever notice that when women wing, its always about tricking guys into talking to/dancing with/seeing their fat friend? It's awful lol. We've all been there if you are going to a club, there's a group of girls and you start talking to one, and they all practically throw the linebacker girl. At least when dudes wing we (should, anyways) make it clear who is the one interested in talking to her, as opposed to girls who will flirt with you then pull a bait n switch!

5. Asking for favors as strangers: I hold doors open, I make an effort to let people by as I walk through a bar. I'm not a dick. But when girls ask me to buy them a drink, or to let them in front of me in a line, I say no. It bugs me that some girls assume that, for being female, they are entitled to that shit

I know people are not patient. If she's hot then you can get her money and then buy her the drink and open her.

So that was a minor rant. In pickup, these are situations I will have to deal with often just by going out so often as I have started doing. Are there things that bother you that women do when they go out? Do you disagree? How do you deal with women that commit any of these...let's call them faux pas?

everytime a girl asks me to take a picture of them, i take the camera take a picture of myself thank them and give them the camera back
It pisses me off so much !

Haha, oh fun times. I feel like it's worth addressing that I don't go into a rage if any of these happen.

I saw a girl come into the bar last night wearing a tiara, I had just explained these rules to the guys I went out with. I didn't freak out, I just said "noooooooooo it's a tiara" and we went to another bar where I forgot about it for the rest of the night

If you go out, this is the kind of behavior you can expect to deal with.

It's better not to focus on it, you can't control what other people do, there's no point in getting annoyed over it, because it's always going to happen.