Yeah,I had a weird moment last night with a HB8.

I was at a birthday/costume party last night for my buddys girlfriend 30th. I was standing talking with some people and said HB8 who for all intensive purposes will be known as "bumbleebee girl" walks by us gives the general hey,how are you without actually looking at us. But she ends up doing a double take when she sees me and stops to say hey. So later on im talking to someone else, bumblebee girl walks by and stops by where i am. Since this was a costume party,i was dressed in a baseball jersey and had a baseball hat on. She says to me so your a baseball player and gives me a what i can describe as a playful shirt tug. We talk for a few seconds and she walks off.

Now,i know that she was fliriting with me on some level(or at least I think so,could be wrong),but i dont pursue. This turns out to be the right course of action since I later hear her mention the word boyfriend and see her griniding up on this other dude/grabbing his ass. I only talked to her a few other times before leaving where the only other conversation we had can only be described as inane BS.

The reason why this isnt in the field report section of this forums the fact that im confused and need a little clarity. Am I correct in believing that she was flirting with me even though she apparently had a boyfriend? Is this common/has this happened to anyone else?

just a reminder:i am a major AFC. Still have much to learn......

Women are flirty. Often times they see it as innocent and that there is nothing wrong with it. They will flirt without any attention of actually doing anything with you. Its a great source of validation for them.

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I agree with warped minds. It's almost like an ego builder for them.

Saying that, some of the time, they're actually interested in following through, regardless of their boyfriends

alright,follow up question.......should I have followed through?

Did you want to fuck her? If the answer is yes, then of course you should have. The boyfriend is her problem, not yours.

she was hot. But wouldnt the boyfriend become my problem especially if he tries to punch me in the face? Like i said, she was an HB8,not a HB10.

if you have sex with her, getting punched in the face will be the last thing in your mind. just go for it

No, it's not your problem, avoid him. Unless it's an obvious risk, I'd go for it, but definitely entirely your decision, of what you feel is wrong or right.