First one Social Circles- develop them. I didn't know of any parties but then I went over to a friend's house. We hung out and I found out they were going to two awesome parties. Knowing more people leads to more things going on.

Second one: Be a challenge. Met this one girl who I was introduced to by a friend. Immediately gave me a million IOI's. Was smiling at me leaning in nonstop-our mouths were so close to each other in seconds talking. And what did I do, I rewarded her with me giving her tons of IOI's right away cause she was giving me them. She soon realized I was not a challenge- and she walked away abruptly. Dammit-she was hot. Should I have said something on the lines of "hey, your really cute but I'm not that easy. I'd like to get know the real you." Do you guys have any suggestions of how to respond when you get immediate IOIs like this?

Third one: Go for a girl you are attracted to. After a few unsuccessful approaches( they lasted like 10-15 minutes but ended up nowhere) I walked by a girl who was by the doorway from the dance party room to the bar room and said hey "It's pretty packed" I immediately tore it up but I believe I did because I was not overly attracted to her(That's another theme be calm all the time no matter how hot she is). She had a cute face but still she was too chubby for me especially when I took off her shirt. In the end I got a bj, but I had to call a cab(she insisted on walking home). I felt like shit about this. I almost would rather be rejected than do what I did to her-even though she took it very well I couldn't tell what she was thinking. I didn't ask her number. In the end I wish I continued approaching cuter girls, so that when I am successful I'm not a prick. Do you guys only go for the hot girls? I think I can't stomach being with a girl that I'm not really attracted too.

Fourth one: Don't masturbate as much. I couldn't cum in the bj. I think I've wactched too much porn and that leads me to not go out as much and be complacent. I read about not masturbating as much and harnessing your sex drive to go out and get women but also to utilize the drive for your life. What do you guys think about this last theme?

I agree with third and fourth strongly.

I think first and second may be debatable and not necessarily always true.