but has a boyfriend..


now am not a PUA nor am i pretending to become one but i have learned alot from all the PUA stuff out there. AM 23 and never been in a relationship b4 and its been long time since i first got laid.

NOw I am in this situation where i work at for a year now this girl likes me and has tolled me things like " no gloves to love" and this one time she tells me "oh you know the morning after pill is my birthday pill" its obvious shes telling she fucks all year with a condom but on her birthday she likes to get cum'd insided.

Now when i first started working at this place i was shy and at the same time learned she had just got into a relationship with a guy when i first started working there. When i first started working there she came on to me asking me lot of questions about me giving me alot of IOIs. but after that i stop talking to her since she had a BF and i figured she wouldnt be into me....

now months came by that i didnt speak to her but then one day she came on to me and it just hit me that she was flirting with me so I just gave in and flirted back and after that she has given me heavy IOIs like one day i was eating dinner in the lounge and she sat in front of me and STARED AT ME FOR TEN mins and i saw her staring at me by the corner of my eyes ( and i know she knows i was looking too) Other times she likes to hit me with objects very lightly and smile at me while she does that...I also remember her staring at me and me catching her doing so for her only to quickly turn her head....


NOw i recently moved from that department to another one and i said fuck it am going to ask her out since shes given me heavy IOIs but when i flirted with her she flirted back but then the following days she became very distant. I got the vibe she felt guilty that i was coming on to her and she was in a relationship. So i figured she like to flirt on her terms.....

what should i do? am sick of his flirtly stuff but then again this brings me to a new problem even if she was single and where to ask her out where would i take her out too?

and also can i trust her? my friend tolled me that she might be unhappy with her boyfriend whos 37 btw and shes 25. And since am young I might be more potential to grow to something better and i should give her a chance to really know her better.

I really dont know if i can trust her even if i do get with her though.....

what would you guys do??

I personally feel to be honest more comfortable asking her out when shes single but even then i would need her to have some time to her self after she breaks up this guy to get her self together emotionally.

This is so similar to the situation i'm in at my work. It's crazy, man. You are definitely in a better position than me though, by the looks of things.

I'm acting oblivious to the fact that she has a boyfriend, you should do them same, but at the same time, don't like ask her to go on a dinner date with you, since that's a clear breach of rules. Going for a walk together or something similar, shouldn't be a breach of relationship rules.

She's clearly into you, hang out with her and sus things out. the boyfriend's her problem, not yours.

like believe me bro I KNOW she likes me but it brothers me that she flirts with me because then i think will she do the same to me?

btw she knows i know she has a BF because this one time in the lounge room i was watching TV and she stood in front of me and RAMDOMLY stands next to me playing with her hair and says " Oh my boyfrineds birthday is coming up its time for me to dress all sexy" and walks away.....


I dont know if i want to hang out with her I mean she giving me soo many IOIs why the fuck hang out as friends? if shes so attracted to me? why dont I just get to know her on a first date?

Well, that's exactly what i was trying to say, don't hang out as friends, sus her out, see what she'll do, whether she'll hook up with you, if she'll hook up with you in a relationship, that means she wants to fuck you. Because she's willing to do something against the relationship for you, that gauges just how far she's willing to go. Hope that makes sense to you.

It doesn't matter if she knows you know, it's still her problem. Just act like you don't care.

I did try to come on to her but then she acted all distant.....like i said she likes to flirt on her terms....am just going to ignore her....am bored of her shit..

Well there you go, if she's too much effort, and she's not complying with what you want, next her.