Lacey is a FPUA. Watch out boys she's the saber tooth version. Deadly.

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"Success is more important than being right." We all have a little nerdiness in us. The trick is to find it.

FWIW, I've got another reason for being here (50% of why I'm here); I find psychology (anthropology in particular) fascinating. This site has lots of interesting insights into this topic that and how it surrounds me. As an example, I never realised just how fascinatingly manipulating adverts were before I came here.

Yes, there probably are better forums than this, but it's often light hearted here and makes me laugh!

Lacey,

This forum exists because women are the gatekeepers to sex and they don't want to be. Traditionally, men approach women and women make the decision as to whether or not there will be a sexual relationship.

This website is about creating the illusion that the pick-up artist is the one who says yes or no. This is accomplished appearing indifferent to possible sexual targets and by making women self-conscious for just long enough to lower their inhibitions. Mostly though, it is about having the confidence to approach and be rejected by dozens and dozens of women.

Not only are you a woman, but you live in Europe. My country was founded by religious prudes. Not only are you able to have sex whenever you want, but you are in a society that I think is more accepting of sex in general.

Rather than date the baby-hungry marriage seekers that I have dated in the past, I have decided to pursue what I want: casual sex.

Lacey,

I understand that You might feel offended or angry or frustrated with this but...

You can't blame men for wanting to be successful with women (whatever that means, sleeping or just keeping a good conversation), it's not men's fault that there are certain techniques that lead to this success.
it's okay.

but it's your fault that You let that happen to You, if You don't want it. You yourself have to watch that no one manipulates You.

so... don't be so confused and don't blame men for getting what they want!

Im not really sure if this thread is still alive, but the hell with it, I'm posting

I discovered the community (and this web) by accident. I find it both unbelievably useful and surprisingly douchbaggy, depending on what I'm reading at the moment.

the thing is, I find some thing considered "legal", such as the so-called boyfriend destroyer routines, as a dick move. Our (or my) goal was and is not to trick women into having sex with us PUA. From my perspective, and given my own needs, I'm only after a better understanding of the female mind and what it responds to, if possible not while trying to screw other people.

funny thing, my last girlfriend was the best one. ever. and I didnt 'got' her by using any routines, steps, techniques, anything. at least not conciously. and I told her all this things I knew, with full disclosure and honesty. she wasnt mad, not even upset.

Personally, I only want to be a better person, in every aspect. aspects such as enhanced social awareness and love life, and I find the principles of the PUA community to be AWESOME when working on it.

Happy new year!

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