How do i set the right f-close frame ?



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 03, 2011 1:57 pm 
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Hey, right to be kind of modest with myself ive came to the part of my game where im attracting a lot of female attention again, the problem with this is f-closing. Whenever I go to f-close my frame and the way im behaving is going down the relationship route and I want to change this, I cant be arsed leading girls on and putting up with the bullshit and stress afterwards.

To elaborate If I’m picking up day game id insist on us watching a film, snuggle up in bed, playful teasing then Bam ! and then usually they’d want to have a relationship ( nothing wrong with a relationship I just want a gf which ive had to work for, which is how I get extremely attracted to girls)

So yeah how do I set up a frame daygame wise in which my intentions are all I want to do is fxck you and let’s see where this goes ? Without the obvious just saying “I want to fxck you and lets see where this goes”


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You must convey sexuality, but silently.

Run some comfort building routines to get her familiar with your touch. Create a strong physical bond that will allow you to enter C3, which is intimacy. Escalate steadily until into S1, arousal.


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Say something in the sexual hemisphere pretty quickly. That will help you a great deal.


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The thing is, is I keep conversation very sexual, its how i end up getting laid lol :P . Its just they always try and see me again to run bf routines on me. I just cant ever seem to get a clean cut which sometimes prevents me from doing it because i dont want to deal with the stress of getting out of "the relationship"
sex always seems to have strings attached with me :\


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Just focus on what you want to do with them. The first thing i usually focus on when i'm with a girl is kissing her. I just vividly imagine that in my head, and everything that i do and say comes out right.


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Make your direct compliment sexual, e.g "you're fucking sexy" or "your ass looks amazing in those jeans"

When you make a date, make it clear "let's hook up Thursday round 7 - there'll be a DVD, some wine, and plenty of sexual tension. I promise at least one orgasm - two or three if you're good ;-)"

Essentially, be clear about what you want and set that frame from the beginning of the interaction.

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Hey, right to be kind of modest ........ Without the obvious just saying “I want to fxck you and lets see where this goes”
How old are the girls and how much time are you spending before sleeping with them. Its a good thing that you are attracting a lot of girls and not giving off a strong player vibe.

Keep the conversation playful without letting them know a lot about you, mystery alive. Keep the Sexual Framing going. Don't call them or speak with them often - keep it at a minimal. Don't hang out often. And yes, the sooner you convey through your actions and Words that all you want is to share sex with them the better it is.


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Make your direct compliment sexual, e.g "you're fucking sexy" or "your ass looks amazing in those jeans"

When you make a date, make it clear "let's hook up Thursday round 7 - there'll be a DVD, some wine, and plenty of sexual tension. I promise at least one orgasm - two or three if you're good ;-)"

Essentially, be clear about what you want and set that frame from the beginning of the interaction.
This is exactly what im looking for thanks :)
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How old are the girls


Around 20-24 usually
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how much time
It differ's each time , sometimes its a few days some times its a day

And I am keeping it minimal with them its just that usually makes them want me more e.g. ( this is a direct c/p from my facebook messages)

11 December
Girl

I usually end up falling asleep if I want to or not when I snuggle up lol :/ they were at a biking weekend in notts with my parents! haha i didnt cause im a good girl :) x

Girl
12 December
Girl

Ignoring my texts are we lol?!

Girl
18 hours ago
Girl

oh hi there!

She wont leave me alone


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This is a great question. Sometimes with daygame, it does take girls longer to get into bed.

But if you are already cuddling you should go ahead and kiss the back of her neck or her forehead. Just brush your lips across her body somewhere while your cuddling. Then do it again. Then leave them there. Then start kissing her. Then bring your lips to her lips. Take your time doing these things but that is a simple way to escalate.

Honestly, you can do whatever you have the courage to do. After kissing, I usually go ahead and take off the girls shirt. Why not? I have had a lot of girls stop me at the panties but I feel like, ok i guess i will just save that for next time.

In summary, if you're not hearing 'no' then you're not pushing enough.


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