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lakefallon
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If everything goes well with a girl, and you know you COULD ask her for her phone number and shed give it to you, is it sometimes better to not ask for the digits and come off as either "above" asking for numbers or playing the hard to get card? Does this work, especially if you are bound to see her again soon? What are the advatanges and disadvantages of asking her number vs not asking her number if she is a girl you talked up real well and know you will see again?
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you know what! thats a great question ive had for a while. i guess it depends on the situation or a case by case but i am interested in hearing what more experienced members have to say
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There is so many different methods out there, some would suggest that this is a great idea, to make it seem like that you don't want anything from the girl, so she chases you. Or whatever.


My opinion.
Personally, i think that's bullshit. I think if you want a girls number, ASK for it, every time, I'm not going to try and do something different than my desires because i think is going to impress a girl. That's Beta male thinking. Do what you want, when you want.
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My opinion.
Personally, i think that's bullshit. I think if you want a girls number, ASK for it, every time, I'm not going to try and do something different than my desires because i think is going to impress a girl. That's Beta male thinking. Do what you want, when you want.
Yup, admittedly or not girls want a man that takes charge. Flirting and not number can really come off weak.

I believe attraction has an expiration date, there may not be a next time.
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Hmm, i don't do it for the purpose of trying to attract them, i just do it because i want to get with them. It's that simple, people should stop trying to do what they think comes off as the smoothest and start doing what they want. They'll have better and happier results.
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I agree Mi1. I'm referring to the female side in regards to attraction. Strike when her interest is peaked. Don't see any useful purpose in waiting and having to do it again... plus who says someone doesn't scoop her up in the meantime.
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There's a reason why things feel natural, there's a point when we're not suppose to think, we're just suppose to do what we want, there's a reason why we want certain things, it's hard wired, and will most likely be the best decision.
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If everything goes well with a girl, and you know you COULD ask her for her phone number and shed give it to you, is it sometimes better to not ask for the digits and come off as either "above" asking for numbers or playing the hard to get card? Does this work, especially if you are bound to see her again soon? What are the advatanges and disadvantages of asking her number vs not asking her number if she is a girl you talked up real well and know you will see again?
This is my opinion. If you want her number, just say, "I'm heading out, give me your number so we can meet up again." If you want to be above the number and you know you'll see her again, just tell her that you'll see her around and not to be afraid to say hello.

In my opinion, it's not so much the hard to get card, but simply a way in which to make her see you as a person on the go.
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If is a cold approach pick up, always try to get the number.

If is someone your gonna see over and over, you don't have to ask for the phone number. Best way to do it is bring it up in a conversation casually.
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yeah, definitely if you cold approach. If you don't get her number, it's almost like you wasted both of your time.
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