Hi guys, I'm currently working at comfort building with a girl. She's been to my place a few times now and I've been getting LMR. I've just brushed this off as no big issue and tried to work on my comfort building a bit more.

Now, heres the real problem, we'll arrange a date (so I can build more comfort) and 3 times now, she has tried changing the date plans right at the last minute. She doesn't cancel, but just tries to change it. For example, the first date I planned was to go to the zoo, but literally an hour before, she asks if we can just go for dinner later that evening. I've got an ego and take this as massive shit test, and tell her I have plans in the evening. Then a few days later, she'll suggest that we just stay in at mine, which she does without any resistance at all.

So, she'll quite happily come round my place, give me LMR (basically, we've done everything apart from me putting my dick in her pussy), but won't meet up on a date on my terms. This really has thrown my game plans out the window and I feel completely not in control. I've never experienced this before! I have a rule that all my first dates are during the day in order to eliminate the thought of sex in their mind, then we do an evening date, then I invite them over and we cook a meal together (and every time I always fuck them by the 3rd or 4th date).


Please, can someone help me out? I'm completely mind fucked on this! I know I should just move on, but I feel like I need to work this out just incase it happens again with another.

PS I was s'pose to go out tonight with her and she flaked again

How are you organizing the dates? through phone call will always be better than text. If she's not going to cooperate, that's her choice, and you can't force her to do anything. However, you can really take charge, and say, we're doing things my way, i'm the leader, I'm not letting you lead. Come across with that attitude, she's kind of almost giving out compliance tests, they're hard ones to brush off, it's just so much better if you're in charge.

Sounds like you've met your match here buddy

However the solution is relatively easy,

Next time she comes over, laugh smile and flirt with her but don't touch her for the whole night.. She'll be begging you to fuck her.. Just hold out. Show you can control you're dick and the roles will switch.. It will be about her trying to fuck you..

She knows you want it, and knows you'll treat her different after you get it... Just treat her different until she fucks you.. Reverse it.. easy

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Thanks for the responses guys, it sounds like I need to let her know that I'm leading when organising a date, and need to not go for any kino when she comes over. I'll try this out, thanks!