Right guys,

Hope I posted this in the right section, apologies if I havn't.

Sometimes I will be chating to a hot girl and another guy will come up(especially if I know him) and say stuff to put me down/ruin the whole thing I have going. Im quite short so its usually a dig at my height or he will say to the girl that she wants a real man.

I struggle to comeback with something on this without being harsh, the majority of the times the guys will say it in a joking kind of way but I know it lowers my status being mocked like that and it annoys me. I'm a fairly good looking guy, girls think im cute- I wouldn't say im a typical man's man kind of dude but I can relate to almost anyone.

Any advice on this guys?

cheers

well your on the right path with not being aggressive back beacuse that will lower your value more than anything, could you be a little more specific on what they might say and i could help you out further, like if they just call your short stuf or worse?

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Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

I've always found that amplifying whatever someone is mocking me for by 10x makes them run out of ammo. Just agree with them and elaborate.
I got cockblocked in high school once by one of the offensive lineman on the football team (American football). I was just talking with one of the girls from class (years before I got into PUA community). He just jumped in the conversation like a complete AMOG asshole and said, "You don't wanna give this guy a chance. Believe me, I've seen him in the shower and he's got the shortest little dick!" She looked kind of embarrassed and he laughed. Now, I have an average size penis, but obviously I wasn't gonna whip it out and show her, so I made a joke about it and said, "I know dude! I'm only like an inch long... but the thing is I got gerth." Then I looked upward thoughtfully and said, "I'm kind of like a cheese wheel!" This made her laugh and he immediately stopped.

I reflected on this recently and broke down that past experience. Whatever someone is heckling you about, they run out of ammo if you agree with them and intensify it. It also DHV because it shows you don't take it seriously and you are making it humorous. Hope this helps!


-Ruggedized

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Whatever someone is heckling you about, they run out of ammo if you agree with them and intensify it. It also DHV because it shows you don't take it seriously and you are making it humorous. Hope this helps!


Agree!


Next time you have a dbag guy making fun of you height...
Laugh and say.. Yeah well Atleast I'm taller when I lay down. Lol

Ruggedized is right to a point i think, you should definatley play along with it, i dont think you should amplify it tho, if by amplify you mean broadcast hes being a dick then i disagree, that can only make him more aggressive and make you seem low value for lowering someone elses value directly. so yes you can play along with it.. .if you feel you cant really find anything funny to say then give that person value and then go back to your conversation.. i do this all the time and it makes the guy feel like a dick beacuse i give him value when hes trying to lower mine... ex. you know what i am short.. im glad i met a tall guy like you, id say be my bodyguard but (girls name) already has job, but you were this close.. that incorporates giving him value and also opens up some banter rolepay for you to play off of for a bit:)

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

You shouldn't even acknowledge cockblocks unless there is a threat of violence.

What you should do is when the cockblock is running his mouth and saying shit, don't look at him or even reply to him. Instead just maintain eye contact with your girl while smiling and playfully roll your eyes. She will get the message that the guy is a jerk trying hard to get her attention.

When the cockblock sees you not responding, still continue talking to the girl. He is after a reaction. If he doesn't get one, he will usually give up and walk away. Don't waste energy on these guys

When he said : you want a real man.

You should have smiled and said to the girl:I think he wants a real man too and then smile and do a little like that

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Don't be worried about them being bigger than you 9 times out 10 if you out alpha them they will just leave with no physical violence. The worst you'll take a couple of hits but fights like that always get broken up.

I normally remove their hat, launching it as far away as possible then tell them to "fetch" and bark like a dog in their face.

If they buy my girl a drink I take it off them and down it, then I say "thanks bro" with a sarcastic wink and a big thumbs up.

Everytime they say something I twist it around to make them seem like a dick or if I can't do that I make them repeat themselves constantly like as if I genuinely can't hear them.

Use sarcasm as much as possible and give ridiculous answers to mindfuck them (think Liam Gallagher when he is being interviewed).

Sometimes just laughing at them or ignoring them completely can work aswell just grab your girls hand and spin her if your in the club, it makes it very hard for the amog to talk to you both