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yeh i agree but im talking first meeting after the hello or opening neg or tease how do i escalate from there maybe slight touch...?
also whats the best way to get details?
Unfortunately, attraction at first is rarely created, it is either there or it isn't. But there is subtle actions and words you can use to get a true read.
I suggest, start with compliments, and see the girls reaction. Her body language alone will be the answer. Unconscious reactions can often tell you a lot. The key is being able to pick up on them.
If you can keep a conversation flowing, i suggest humor, if you can make a woman laugh, she will feel comfortable and if she has an attraction to you, you will see it.
The most common is eye contact, if she is continuing to look into your eyes as you speak that is a very good sign. Smiling is next on the list, Also the subtle touch, ie: touch on your arm, shoulder, leg. A head tilt, is usually unconscious from a woman but is also a good sign.
The signs that a woman is not attracted to you are also subtle especially if you are being a gentleman....women tend to be empathetic creatures by nature, so it's very easy for men to not pick up on her NOT being interested or attracted to you.
The signs are usually, lack of eye contact, also whether or not she is facing you straight on as you speak to her.( if she is looking away even just a few times, its usually a bad sign. Look for arms being crossed and direction of feet, yes that right feet. if she is facing you but her feet are pointing away its never a good sign.
Being able to observe these subtle tells can greatly increase your opportunity to either seal the deal or get out before you get rejected. Keeping your rejection rate low will ensure your confidence level stays high. Confidence is everything in this game, so be careful with it. The more you can maintain a high level, the better your results will be.
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