[field report followed by question]

So last night I actually end up running into the girl who flaked on me the night before. Since I have no patience for flakes I straight up told her, you fucked up, buy me a drink.
She laughed and said no. I said, fine. Walked to the bar and got my own drink and ejected.
I get stopped by two girls on the way to the dj booth, both prospects... Flirt them up a bit.

I'm in the DJ booth hanging and look at the flake who makes a "lick pussy" with her fingers at me... To which of course I respond with a blowjob face and fist thrust.

She comes to the booth and apologizes to me and says she wants to leave with me at the end of the night. I shit tested her and said, let's leave right now. She said she can't... So I kicked her out of the dj booth and started flirting up another prospect.

Later in the night I walk by flakes table and she's all pissy and is trying to say something to me that I can't hear so I pull her to the bar. She starts telling me I'm an asshole for kicking her out of the booth and I shouldn't be mad that she flaked cause she knows I'm not looking for a girlfriend.

We get into a verbal confrontation that ends with me grabbing her, pulling her into me and start making out with her. We make out on and off the rest of the night but she can't leave with me.... Logistics!

So, here's my question....

What's a good response to a girl who says, "You're not looking for a girlfriend?"
-I've always thought the best approach was honesty. "No, I'm not.... So let's have fun.." but I know there must be a better frame for this statement. I get it often. But I'm not beta and I'm not a kiss ass or a provider.

Thanks...

I find its often better to just smile and escalate during moments like this, its just a shit test. It doesn't become real unless you give a response, wether that be a witty comeback or an explanation.

Also she didnt go home with you, because she already felt validated enough from the makeout, had you just gave her a quick passionate kiss and pulled away first she would of been begging for more. And your response would of been, " wait till we get home'

P.S. next time, just pull her in the closest bathroom

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Ohhh, you're right..

I gave her way too much.

I pulled her upstair near the bathrooms for a heavy make-out. No closet to be found.

I guess I was feeling a little shitty last couple days so wanted the validation myself. But you're 100% right.. Could have made it so much more.

I would respond to the girlfriend question with "i do know what i am looking for is a really cool chick" or something less gay and more funny than that. But says the same thing

agree with the ignore like fuze said,

or you could also say "convince me otherwise" and smile innocently at her.

thereby presenting a challenge and a chance for a girl to validate herself.

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