| Over the past year or so i exponentialy expanded my social circle like crazy, and 80% are girls. Here is some help:
1- If youre a cool guy, a girl will want you to meet her friends, she will want to take you out... they love to show off! My advice is to be "cool". Show her from the minute you meet her that you are fun, interesting, AND THAT YOURE NOT GONNA BE HITTING ON HER FRIENDS NEITHER ON HER!
2- If youre willing to take, you have to be willing to give as well. What i mean is this: If you want her to introduce you to her friends, take the first step and introduce her to your friends. A great way of doing it is by saying "oh, you like xyz music/food/dance/show/movie (or "you study xyz subject/school or "youre from xyz country") ... i have a friend who is realy into that! you guys should meet!". By saying this, you show that youre not there to pick her up, youre willing to expand her network, and you have interesting friends.
3- The more they are into you, the less willing they will be to just introduce you to her friends ... SOOOO, you have to give up on your game a bit. Try to find out about the places where she usually go to (without being too obvious). You can say "i went to xyz teh other day, have you ever been there?" she will mostlikely tell you where she goes. Mention clubs or bars cause those are public places. She wont go alone. Stop by those places randomly to see if she is there... DO NOT ASK, make it a coincidence. Go by yourself, sit next to her and tell her "im gonna join you guys here for 10 minutes. Im supposed to meet up with some friends at xyz, but since it was early, i decided to stop by here". Join her and her friends, and maybe you will end up staying there or taking them out!"
4- Meet GUYS! If you approach a group of girls with a guy there, engage in a convo with him! If he likes you, he will wing you! Besides, guys know girls too! _________________ Im not a player... im a winner!
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