Well about 2 days ago my friend chad, was talking to one of his friends thats a girl called shay. I was sitting one the other side of the cafeteria and chad pointed me out and lied to shay and said I was his cousin. Well the girl that I happen to have a crush on christina(I dont really know her) was right next to chad and shay. Chad claimed that christina said I was cute after hearing chad's lie that I was his cousin. He said that christina didnt say it with great passion but in a more relaxed way. So how should I approach her? and what type of things should i say?

Welcome Wood..

Why don't you just take your tray and go over and sit next to them next time you're at lunch. Make eye contact and smile. You can take Chad with you if it makes you more comfortable (this would be like using him as a wing).

I would sit next to the one you like.

Nothing worse than paying her friend more attention, then having her friend think it's on between you and her. And having Christina thinking you're not into her.

If Christina acts distant, pay attention to her friend and build a little social proof. Then when Christina comes out of her shell, pay more attention to her, find a little more about what she likes to do, how she gets home from school and where she hangs out. And either ask to see her again, or go to where she is and hang out with her.

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ya i agre with starbuck in sittin with them next time you see them all together, but dont act like you know she said that. Learn AMOG tactics on here and become the center of attention, give yourself social value. then she will be a little more attracted to you. MM it at that point, dont give her too much attention, and when you do, negg her. finally, appologize for leaving her out of the convo, isolate her and build some comfort.

good luck,

PB