Me and this girl live 1 mile apart, I finally got her to like me as a person, we used to really attract eachother but we had a fight. I dont think she sees me as a friend or a possible boyfriend again yet, when she came back from her trip I dropped by her house to say welcome and im sorry, she was happy and said she appreciated it. She doesnt have a cellphone that works in the area, so I drop by if I want to ask her somewhere. Today I dropped by her house, I was texting when she opened the door:

-Her: ''Hey, whats up?'' (in a what are you doing here tone)
-''I dont have much to do today, so Im going to buy some clothes and then for lunch, wanna come?''
-Her:''I cant, I really cant, I have this rehersal for a drama today, and I'm not really dressed, i was on pj's when you came''
-Me: ''So lazy''
-Her:''Well, thats what vacation is for''
-Me: ''No, vacation is for growing as a person'' (joking tone)
- She stares
-Me: ''oh, well, me and Dan are going for a walk later, wanna join?''
-Her:''Who is Dan?''
-Me: ''Dan Q''
-Her:''Ohhh, Danny I remmember him, I have a flash mob later...''
-Me: ...?
-Her:''You dont know what a flash mob is?''
-Me: ''No''
-Her:''Its like when everyone breaks out in a dance out of the sudden in a random place''
-Me: ''Oh, do it in an apple store'' (i think flash mobs are gay, i know, i should have olny said ''coool'')
-Her:''Itll be at the mall or something.''
-Me: ''Oh well, ok, byee.''
-Her: ''See youuu....''

What do you guys think? And what should be my next step?
She not having a working cellphone is a double edged sword for me.

She's not interested.

The longer you know a girl without sleeping with her the less likely it is to happen. Plus, showing up out of nowhere to someone's door isn't good.

Learn from the situation and move onto the next girl. [/youtube]

Yeah, I know she is not interested. Ahh, such bad luck with girls right now. Maybe Im the one who is not interested. I like her, and i dont want her to get into a relationship and have to steal her from him later.

And I didnt sleep with her because we got into a fight when we were going to start our relationship. Also, she is still a virgin, and I dont mind, I want a serious relationship, not a one night stand.

Are you really just stopping by her house randomly like that??

What part of the world is that acceptable?

Does she have a house phone or a facebook?

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She might be interested, it happened to me before, she has always been good at hiding her feelings, also she doesnt trust me and I think thats the problem here, since I hurt her. I want to earn her trust.

hurt her how?

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She wanted a relationship with me, but I told her I wasnt ready for one (Back then i didnt really know anything about how to handle a serious relationship). By the time we talked about it she had already told all of her friends and my friends we were into something, so that hurt her, having to tell her friends that I wasnt asking her out was probably the cause, also she could have felt rejected, who knows. But then we got into a fight, and I hurt her more. Then we stopped talking until a couple of weeks ago when I went to her house to welcome her and say sorry.