So you go out with the girl, it goes ok - she kinda cuts it short bc its a week night. There was not much time to kino or get emotional.

Do you wait for the thank you i had a nice time call or text, or do you call her?

How did it go? Are you "feeling" it? If so, give her a call. I think the whole "wait 3 days" thing is bullshit. Show her you are a man who takes action and knows what he wants.

Bump

Throughout time men always tried to answer the question "What do women want?". A short answer to that question would be "women just want to be taken", but before that you should answer this question "Do I want to take this girl?"

Sounds like it didnt go well my man. Without some build-up from the first date you're fighting an uphill battle. Call or text and put the ball in her court and see what she does with it.

More importantly however, go through the date and evaluate what you could have done better. Even if nothing comes of this you'll be more prepared with the next one.

took a while to setup the date and to be honest by the response time of texts i was surprised she called me back. The energy of the date was good but i didnt get to progress as much as i would have liked bc i thought i had more time. we finished up our first drink at the spot we met at, and i wanted to change venues, she asked how far it was - then when we got outside to my car she said its late and she has a big day tom (it was 9:30pm)

from my experience if you like someone the time doesnt matter, so i gave her a ride home and it just sort of ended.

I dont know that i made too many mistakes other then her interest level was probably just enough to grab a quick drink

Yeah, I'd say it didn't go too well then, unfortunately. It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong in particular, just that you weren't able to build up more interest and keep her entertained.

My goal with all women is to make them laugh as frequently and as hard as possible. Try to make her piss her pants. You don't even need to tell good stories - it's the way you tell them that makes them hilarious. Laughter is extremely attractive, and if a woman sees you as being someone who can make them laugh all the time, half the battle is already won.

so i doubt she will call, desnt seem like the type - but she is pretty hot, i would say hb8.5, the hottest girl i am working currently - so is it worth it to wait a few days and call try to get her out again, or do u leave w pride

My mindset is sort of the opposite of this.. I go in like " well I sure hope this girl is funny, because i wanna laugh"

I take more of the prize mentality... Its not about me impressing her with my humor, its more if she can impress me... I'm the one taking her out, she has to make some lot of effort to keep me happy during the date otherwise she's paying for the bill.


I think she wanted you to take her home after the few drinks instead of a new venue.. Like you go home with her and give her a good time.. I just don't think you caught on to this.. When she said she wants to go home you should of just said.. " already? okay lets go.. but your cooking breakfast" .. Assume the attraction always..

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