Here's the story:

Met this girl HB8 at the local bar we both hang at: dance, number, and kiss close. Flirted/escalated through text and setup a date. Girl comes off more reserved than other girls I recently hooked up with. Initial date was her coming over my house but she felt uncomfortable doing that on the 1st date. We meet up for a drink and I get some deep conversation out of her, show value & qualify her when deserved whole 9 on point.

Easy getting her back to my house, we're getting hot and heavy she's muttering "We want two different things" and "I wasnt ready for this" but we keep on moving forward. Eventually I have to piss from all the beers earlier and I come down and shes called a cab. I lead her to stay but no dice and she has turned cold (assume b/c shes looking for a bf and I want to get laid). But we kiss as it gets there with her biting my lip nice and good as she walks out the door.

Text her 2 days later about getting together again no response. That was 2 days ago. I would love to finish this out b/c she's hot. Looking for some perspective: Do I say F it and move or Text her one more time?

Well if thats the only reason you're doing it then thats the reason you wont get it again... You sound like a horny 14 year old and she wants an emotional connection with someone she can share her love with. Sounds like my sort of girl. whats her number?

anyway.

You said this girl wants a relationship and you scared her off by only wanting her for sex "because shes hot."

She knows this. If she wants sex she will come to you. Texting her again wont change her mind.

Maybe changing your view of her might be a good place to start though. Get to know her for who she is. Tell her youre not interested in the sex. This would only work if you meant it though, because she would probably try make you wait.

Otherwise, go find a girl who wants the same things as you. Like only sex.

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also for future advice this is where you should acknowledge this too, by saying "i agree". Pushing too hard will make her resist more.

However a bit of pull, as well such as suggesting you dont sleep with girls on the first date and that its a bad idea..... but.. you cant help it.... followed by a deep soul gaze into her eyes where you slowly move closer to her and start kissing her more passionately. actually will give you better results.

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Hey BB,

Didn't realize this was the relationship forum... my bad

Early connection went well, learned a great deal of things about her which built the comfort of getting to my place. I agree in the end she felt it was only lustful behavior between the two of us and in the end felt bad about going that far. Natural progression led us to my couch, not sure how I could have changed the outcome.

Our viewpoints on woman differ, but thanks for your insight.

Exactly what I was looking for.

You had it in the bag... Its doesnt matter what she says..

When she comes back to your place, shes knows what the fucks about to go down.. She isn't stupid lol

IT sounds like she just over thought it a bit while you were taking a piss.. SHe was alone an cold and mind fucked herself.. She'll contact you again.. Wait it out.

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