Hey i need some good, subtle pick up lines. just openers to break the ice. nothing sexual. just simple and casual

i would start with hellololol

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that was not helpful at all. im going clubbing this weekend and i really would appreciate some good openers

How about, "Hi."

Seriously, what you say is almost totally irrelevant. What matters is how it's said and the context through which it's perceived - in other words, the vibe you project in a given interaction.

Quit getting hung up on minutia.

Your boy,
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Hi... then what. im stuck and i wouldnt know what to say. i realize the opener is unimportant but i am still unable to come up with anything. feed me some examples please

Tonight in the chat room. You chatted for hours just fine, being stupid, joking random even got in trouble for trolling.

So how can you not hold a conversation in real life past "Hi" ?

Of course you can. Just relax. Youre over analyzing the "what" when you should be focusing on the "how"

Dont worry about what should I say next? Think about how you want the conversation to feel... fun? flirty? then the words are the easy part.

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I love you.

That's a little queer Snarg.

And yeah "hi" is the best thing to say, together with "do I know you?" which is so cheesy it becomes fun.

Hey, Whats your name? I wanted to meet you.

There are tons of posts on openers here on the forum, just look them up on the "openers" tab on the front page.

You can make it really easy and have them open you. I do this with a prop I have. It's a giant ass zippo I bought from walgreens for like $20. It's about as big as an average paperback book. I keep it in my back pocket, and when a song comes on that I like, i pull it out, light it up like a torch, and wave it back and forth like I'm in a concert and really into the song. I've only been kicked out once for using it, but a couple of girls actually followed me out of the club and opened me there.


-Ruggedized

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aright. thanks man. yeah props are def a great idea. i ll look into something that i can bring along with me while im sarging to keep everyone entertained and attract attention.

you da man breaking. its not that i cant hold a conversation. i just canted get laid! i admit i do get nervous ESPECIALLY when im talking to a hot girl for the first time. and for some reason no 7-10s like me! in high school there were some cute girls that were into me and even in my freshman year of college and sophomore year. i dont know what has changed. ive been in a rut for 2 years and havent got laid. i need some help man!

start a journal on this site. people will help you along the way

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where should i post my journal entries? ill just post it here for now.

Journal Entry #1: basically today i had one goal in mind: talk to at least two random girls before going to class. ive been scared of rejection and also get nervous around hot girls when im first meeting them ESPECIALLY if im talking to them out of the blue.

So i basically just thought of this as an exercise or a game and took none of it to heart. i ended up talking to 4 girls. honestly i didnt know what to open with and felt that saying "hi" my name is ____" would only make me look like a tool. so i asked every girl where this building was and that i was trying to find my class room for next semester. i think the approach was TOO casual. because 3 out of the 4 girls seemed like they just wanted to tell me and then pretty much get the fuck out of there. one girl i talked to a little bit and told her i was an art major and that i was a senior and la la la fluff which got me nowhere as well since i ran out of things to say. she eventually was like maybe someone else knows where it is and say bye.

It wasnt a complete failure because i know now that i can at least approach women (esp. hot ones since the first was a smokin hot asian) and at least muster the courage to say SOMETHING. i still need a lot of work on my game, not be scared to try to flirt with them, and need to practice changing the conversation from fluff in to substance . i would appreciate any advice you are willing to give. hope i didnt bore you - Troll

lol...ololol

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