Ok so I've been somewhat struggling with this sticking point, so thought I'd get some input on here:

I recently got into day game, and although it was somewhat scary at first to approach girls during daytime and start talking, I eventually got over it. At this point, I can open HBs well, so I think I've eventually overcome the first hurdle for day game. I have been going indirect and use a situational opener. (Tried canned openers, but feel way more anxiety going in with one.)

Transitioning into regular conversation is where I need some input. Do you guys usually go into "So what do you do" mode right after the opener, when you feel the girl has hooked? Or do you do more statements and talking, and go into some sort of a story which has some indirect DHV before "so what do you do"-kind of questions?

And now that I'm somewhat comfortable with opening, will going direct be easier for transitioning to conversation? There is a lot on youtube on direct daygame, but thought I'd get some input on here first. Thanks for the help.

Yeah I think going direct is the best way for day game. Say you went direct at night, a girl knows whats up and assumes your just another drunk guy giving her a compliment and she won't take you seriously.

However, being given a compliment in the day is completely different. There is no alcohol or loud music and you will come across as a confident, genuine guy.

They are rarely ever approached during the day, probably by charity fundraisers or what not but that's it. You coming up to her and stating your intent will do wonders. There is also a high chance of her remembering you too as a guy coming up to her and giving her a genuine compliment almost never happens.

Mike being direct during day game is very powerful. Yes, you may feel anxiety to do so but after you get over it the conversation will be smooth. The girl whom you approach has probably never in her life been approached directly during the day. By you being confident enough to even approach her during the day shows already a lot about you. Many girls wish someone approaches them during day because usually it's the most boring time so their gaining also by you approaching them. One of my female friends who's really hot recently told me how some guy approached her during day whiles she was sitting alone in Starbucks and they had a good conversation and it made her day. Not everything in the world is visible. You might think she doesn't want it but she does. Girls also think the same. So in short go ahead direct approach her and have a good conversation. Good luck.

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I think the key question is "how direct"? Is there a limit or a line as to how direct your approach should be and how you should tone your language down? For example, not be TOO sexual (E.g. "you are so darn hot" type statements) in case it may go the wrong way?

Great advice from amazingArt and Goldust, I agree completely.

@salad_fingers I think as long as you say what you mean, without coming across as you want to rape her on the spot, it's fine. Something along the lines of "you're super cute, i was checking you out and had to come up and talk to you" I would think is perfect. But Saying "oh my god, i want to fuck you brains out right here and now" may be a little scary.

Just use a mix of common sense and balls. And it'll come out just right: )

"you're super cute, i was checking you out and had to come up and talk to you"

Even that line I am not sure about - "I was checking you out....." couldn't that immediately imply being a stalker?

Yeah well don't say "I was checking you out".

You know it doesn't even have to be an amazing line. Some as simple as "Hey I just saw you and had to come over and tell you that you look really nice", that is it! Make sure it is said with a genuine smile and you are gold!

You don't want to look like you have been rehearsing what you are going to say or that you are trying too hard. Really, use that line I gave you. It's so simple and it works. Looks very casual.

Not unless you're applying the three second rule: once you see a girl you like, give your self maximum three seconds to approach her. She'll realize that you haven't been stalking her because you just saw her, and she barely had time to see you.

Your so damn hott is actually cool, you can even push it a bit further.. you obviously haven't heard of the Shock and Awe Technique


@Mike1 Direct is a lot less scary then trying to transition into direct after first opening indirect.. You get all the bullshit out the way early, and if she likes you and/or you approach she will be receptive to giving you her phone number within the first 30 seconds.. However, as Puas we're not exactly going for a phone number now are we.. An instant date, and then an f close would be what we go for.

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personally, i don't even think the content of what you say is important, you can get away with any content if you do it in the right manner. An example, you could slightly look away and talk like you're shy and you had to build up a lot of confidence to say "I was checking you out" And it could come across great. Or she could take it the wrong way, who knows, there's no promises.

personally, i don't even think the content of what you say is important, you can get away with any content if you do it in the right manner. An example, you could slightly look away and talk like you're shy and you had to build up a lot of confidence to say "I was checking you out" And it could come across great. Or she could take it the wrong way, who knows, there's no promises.

Not for newbies, somehow.

Even so, I wondering whether or not the "three second rule" applies to daygame as much as nightgame, is it so?

You are right. You can change that to ten seconds during the day.

The three second rule doesn't mean you can't go after a girl after five minutes, it just means you have that much more chances of things happening better if you go immediately. Especially, it limits approach anxiety. If you wait, the anxiety just build up more and more.

Thanks for the excellent feedback, guys. That's very helpful.

After the compliment or initial comment, do you just start off with a simple question?