Okay so simply the story so far

>Met girl through friend
>We went out twice, drank together and kissed on two seperate nights
>Second night i ask her out for dinner, she agrees
>Perfect dinner date, lots of kino but was too pussy to close
>I then try to do some damage control and ask her out to the cinema but she flakes
>I stopped contact with her for a few weeks

And now shes text me saying she "hasnt seen me for ages," and that "we should meet up and do something". I tell her i have an easy week, she replies saying shell text me when shes free.

Now because she flaked before i dont want to really put much effort and emotion into it. Do i actively persue her or do i just wait for her to contact me?

how exactly did she flake?

what happened?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I don't think there's any problem with pursuing her. Don't come across as needy, but ringing her up shouldn't do that. And then you can organize it. Depends how much you want her.

Meet up with her if you're interested in her.

Also, there seems to be this notion that any time a girl cancels on you its for some bullshit reason because she has lost interest in you. People are sometimes genuinely busy or can't make it, don't automatically assume she's gone cold, just treat it as no big deal.

Taking a stab here and say she flaked because he didn't close on the dinner date and followed up with a movie date. Just a guess tho. There is a chance the flake was legit tho.

Balls in her court, let her contact you and set a date with you. If she is still interest in seeing you she will follow thru, if not she won't.