Hey peeps

So heres the sit:

Took out a HB9 for a drink last wednesday, went well, kissed her.

Kept texting probably 3/4 times a day after then, but she does take longer than me to respond and I dont want to DLV, I leave it 1/2 hours to reply but she has gone up to 9 hours with out a reply, on Saturday I told her I was taking her Nandos on Sunday, she said she was working all day, so i said when would she be free & she said Monday. She was texing me bk like in 5 minutes every time.

Monday comes We share 2 texts pretty quick responces, but I text her last at 11am. I had no reply after that all day. I was not texting her twice, I don't wanna DLV.

So we didn't go out.

Today she facebook msg me saying:

Hello! Sorry I didn't get back to you yesterday. I got a new phone and my old one stopped working but my new one wouldn't work! And so iv lost numbers!! How r u? xx

I have not replied, it's been an hour so far, I may reply later on tonight as I am busy & she is working until 9pm.

Last night she was on facebook, she could have msg'd me then? Why wait until today? I do not want to come across too keen but I'd like to see her again... Advice on how to handle this thanks in advance

This is what I think, Your night went well, you both had fun, you got your K-close. But you started to get very happy about this, and kept texting her 3/4 times a day, thats not fine. Thats being needy, and to easy!

Look at what you wrote, "Kept texting probably 3/4 times a day after then, but she does take longer than me to respond" , when a girl is enjoying you she wont take longer to respond if she is not busy. You are the one that should be taking longer so she wonders what you are doing. Not with 1 hour, the key is to variate (15 minutes, 2 minutes, 10 minutes, 10 seconds, 5 minutes) That is mysterious, she will ask you what you are up to and dont give yourself away, say that you are just chillin. I always use that, they dont know what chillin is, it can be anything!

Since she wrote you back, you might have a chance.

Relax, play it cool, text her 1-4 times / week.
That gives you both more time to have long and fun conversations.
Have a conversation for about 2-3 hours, make her laugh, talk
about interesting things. And remember this, sometimes you need
to be the one that ends the conversation, that is power!

And another thing, I may have this all wrong, but it sounds like you are really in to this girl because you're thinking about how long it takes for her to answer and such things, I bet you even pick up your phone sometimes just to check if there is a text there. That is a really bad habbit to have, it will follow you around for a long time, so try to get it away asap!

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Cheers man, thanks for the reply.

You are probably right, I will drop off the interest in her to a text a day, but thats if she texts me 1st.

i wouldn't text her for at least a few days,

with a similar 'believable' situation like she claimed as to why you were busy or couldn't get back to her.

and yes, she is playing games.

par for the course.

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