So my ex and i have been talking recently, and i havent had a gf since her and theres a small chance of getting back with her. Basically when she plays hard to get it annoys me like crazy but somehow it works. keeps me coming back to her attracted to her and curious ( but still theres an annoying ass feeling). However, when she does any small dumb thing where i look at her lower then me, i get kind of turned off by her, not sexually but generally. i think the only time i'd be in a good mood thinking about getting back with her is when i'm horny or just need someone to talk to like a legit friend. She's one of those legit gf's too that are trustworthy and worth keeping, but i don't want to get together again if theres gonna be times where i dont want her.

What do you guys think i can do to get rid of the turned off feeling and not be in the need for the annoying "playing hard to get" thing to make me still want her? Any solutions in general to make things better?

we can't change the way that you feel.

that being said, exes are exes for a reason.

no doubt, that when you think about her naughty bits, it brings up fond feelings and memories.

i'm fairly certain that its what her pussy-and-tits are connected to (ie- her personality) that turns you off.

just ask yourself, if this girl was vaginaless - truly - would i WANT to spend a lot of time with her? would she be one of my favorite people in the world?

if not, i would move on.

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I agree with everything except for the vaginaless part lol.. Are you saying that you would marry a woman without a vagina? In that case ill just marry my best friend lol.. I love that dude to death and i dont care if he has a vagina or not

To the author of this... You only want her because you have no one else.. Go out an meet other women and the memories of her will begin to fade.. You just like the type of person she is, you don't like her anymore..

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I agree with you Fuze, but the only thing is, is that shes 17 and im 18 and the only reason we broke up was because her parents found out and made it hell for her. So we try to talk as much as we can but hard as hell with her parents always watching her.
And second, your right about definitely looking for other chicks, but where i'm from its not that easy. There's always hot and cute chicks everywhere but most of them are slutty which isnt good for gf material. Plus so far, since weve been together i've always communicated the best with her from other girls, i guess we have a lot in common and she understands me.
But yea basically i'll still look for other girls in the meantime, but any advises for me whether i should talk to her or not?

Let her go...

you want her for selfish reasons.. Give someone else a shot.

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