Hi! I come from Sweden and i am a student, 18 years old. I have ever since i was 13 had good connection with girls but recently it has faded a bit. I lost my virginity when i was 15 and been with a couple of girls since. I have always been a little better with girls then my friends. Now i havent had sex in more then a year.

The main reasons i know for sure is lazyness and ofcourse being scared of rejection. So how it is right now im pretty AFC. Even tough im messing around with women about once each second week i want to put more energy into it and become really good, become a PUA.

I want to start a new topic about myself here(a diary) so i can share my reality with you guys. How do i start the topic?

So basically im pretty out of the game right now, because i havent had sex with a girl in a long time. Between 15-17 it was very often.

Do you guys have any good tips?

// AFC

Would be awesome to get any reply from u guys! Cheers!

All I can say is dude you're 18 you have many experiences to come, as for the diary well you can post it in field reports I guess... and number them so people can follow them. I don't think you have any problem with picking up women, by your description you sound like you've got it all sussed out.

In terms of turning yourself into a PUA well thats a life choice and if you feel that is something you want to devote all your attention to then go for it, most of us do this for a hobby, well I do anyway. I don't know what the community is like in Sweden but i've heard things and you'll do fine the older you get.

Alright thanks for the respond! I feel just as you do to turn it into a hobby, i got so much other things going on with school and friends that i don't have time for more.
I don't have so much problem with women you're right but i want to get even better, i don't have a chance against a PUA so im not that good.

Do you have any recommendation for gaming women in my age? I feal pretty dominated in bars and clubs when im by the youngest caliber. Is there any way to turn this around to my advantage?
Have a good one!

I didn't go to clubs and stuff until I was like 19 but i had that problem when i finally did go out thats why the game helped me. Best way to approach it i found was through something i loved... I love playing pool in clubs and pubs and im really good so I used my skill to get people talking to me and then i looked the bees knees when I won. If you want good social proof when in a club I say act more experienced so like slam shots with people or...

In the UK there is a really popular club drink called a jaegarbomb which is jaegermister shot with half a glass of energy drink and there really cheap so its customary to have one with your friends in a club, maybe try invent that and drink it with people. It's hard to compete with older people with loads of life experience so just over promote your great qualities.

And yeah PUA is a great hobby, sometimes when i go out with friends I don't approach to get a close at all, knowing the game helps being friendly to get served quicker but that's it, you can flick it on and off like a switch